First off, congrats on your upcoming wedding!
Now for the questions:
Will you be on the dining plan? Is this your first trip to WDW? Are you both looking for more park time, or are you content with taking your time and having many table service meals? Also, what kind of passes will you have? There are several nice sit down places in the parks, but if you don't have park hopping capability, you will want to make ADRs in the park you plan to be in that day. If you aren't normally big eaters, you may choose to stick with quick, convenient counter service instead of large, time consuming meals. Are you staying onsite?
The list of places you have looks good, but I have only been to CRT. Please be aware that there was a price increase for CRT in Feb, and if on the dining plan, this location uses 2 TS credits per person. If you do the dining plan, you will end up paying OOP for one of the meals you have listed. You get a photo pkg & a castle litho to offset the additional cost. Cinderella, the Prince, and the Fairy Godmother are there.
Portion sizes at most WDW eateries are large, so I'm not sure I would schedule more than 1 a day at most.
