afwdwfan
DIS Dad #460
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We always have a good time together. And that in and of itself wasn't ruined. But it just could have been a lot easier.Yikes! Around the Holidays I'm always envious of those who have families to spend it with, especially on the ones where my parents spend with my sister's family. But then there are these times I hear about when there are so many folks with such varying levels of planning, I feel blessed that the only folks in our family we ever travel with are my parents.
Yeah... that's impressive. At least I think that's the word for it.In some respects my Mom does me to shame! I remember a weekend trip to their house last year where I was so busy the week or two before we didn't have time to plan any meals or activities other than my HS reunion was Saturday night and we would arrive Saturday afternoon. We had little time to freshen up before the evening and rushed out to get there. The next morning she sat me down over my morning coffee and wrote down the plans for dinners for the next three days, what restaurant we would go to on our "night out" and what activities we had planned for the daytime, whether it was nothing, shopping, visiting old haunts. She just had to know what the plan was for the next 3-4 days while we were there. Hilarious!![]()

Definitely! I always like to have an idea of "Ok, here's what we're doing today, be ready to leave at XX:XX if you're going."I think you definitely need a vague plan for any trip, with the idea that it can always be changed on the fly. When you have that many people it's like herding cats to get them to agree when they are all sitting around. Someone needs to take charge and "hold the flag" whilst the rest follow. (Brazilian Tour Group Example)
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think this is the best plan. Nobody but us needs to know what you are planning. I know that my father moves slowly and when we were at WDW, we missed breakfast at WPE because he wouldn't get up and ready.


Oh, we're very similar in this regard. I've got a spreadsheet with columns for breakfast, morning park, lunch, afternoon plans, dinner and evening park. And they're all color coded based on what park it is, what type of meal it is and how it is to be paid for.I do my plans in an Excel Spreadsheet that looks like a calendar with three rows for Morning, Afternoon and Evening. I have loose plans like Parks, ADRs and other plans in there. Maybe print up something like that and give it to everyone and tell them, "This is what we are doing, you're welcome to join us if you want to try and keep up."![]()

I appreciate it! I'm actually almost caught up already. Thankfully, nobody went crazy with updates.As far as TRs go, I've been crazy busy for as long as you have been gone, so you haven't missed much on mine. There's also easy links in the second post for quick catching up!![]()
We'll see what happens. Truthfully we get plenty of date nights and adult only activities at home, so having that at Disney World isn't a must. So we'll see. I don't think we can use Kids clubs yet though with DD being 2.Most definitely not. Kids club!!! OR consider a lunch date out, or afternoon, or even an early rope/drop or breakfast without the kids.
Ok, there is some more peripheral information that I'll try to explain later. I don't think that it was as much that people wanted to sleep in, it was just that nobody knew what the game plan was. The annoying thing was that there are trails we could have explored during those 2 or 3 hours of limbo in the morning or DW could have gotten her spa visit in during that time, but instead we were sitting around thinking we were leaving the cabin at 8 or 9 while it turned into 10, 11 or 12. And it was always due to someone sitting in their room watching TV, or going for a walk on one of those trails, or lounging somewhere else waiting on someone to tell them what time we're leaving. It was simply a lack of communication and having a firm plan in place.Ummmmm
Let it go.
Folks that want to sleep in on vacation, are going to sleep in. Unless they are disney park commando people...or type A want to be busy people, it will always be a clash. If you let go of the idea of all leaving together and just find ways to meet up at certain points, you will all be happier. Yes, it will mean more texting. Yes, you will really need to make sure phones are charged but this way no one will totally have to give up things that are important to them.
As far as splitting up... I'm not opposed to it at all. Especially with that many people. I would welcome it, because there are things my family would like to do that the rest of the group doesn't have much interest in. We actually even considered adding a night just for us for this reason alone. I know splitting up is more efficient. But everybody wanted to do things together, so as you said, I did Let it go.



From what I've seen, DD is too young for the Kids Clubs, being just 2. So I'm not sure that's an option. I don't think we'd send them back with the grandparents early since MiL's complaint is that she can't relax and sleep when she has the kids. It wouldn't be worth it to send them back and then get texts asking when we'll come back to the room.Yeah, getting the texts during date night would have made me not want to have any more date nights. That really stinksWhat about Kids Club? I've heard great reviews! But who knows?! Maybe your IL's will be so worn out from the parks that they'll insist on taking the kids back to the room?!
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My recommendation? I've never even been there. I've just heard a lot of good things and really want to try it. I haven't canceled that ADR yet, but who knows...Aw man no more TH?! I actually made an ADR because of your recommendation, along with Phil's (I think Phil. Can't remember now.)

Mmmmm... popcorn.I am trying to be patient as I wait and not eat popcorn. I am waiting to hear about Kings Island. I am going there on August 7 when I visit family.
Sorry, I'll try to get to work on it.
You know who has good popcorn? Kings Island.
