How do you nicely get someont to leave you alone?

[cindys_castle2011]

My ex has been calling and texting me non-stop for the past three day!

We dated broke up in August. And he and this girl dated from September, till last week.

Now, it's like he's become obsessed with talking to me. He's called me, 16 times today. He is constantly texting me. When I asked him if he still had feeling for me, he was like "whaaa no! why on earth do you think that????"

It's confusing, and annoying. I have no want to talk to him. How do I nicely tell him to leave me alone for good?

 

[disneyworldluvr349]

Just tell him to give you space...

If he really cares about you he will respect you...

 

[JulielovesDisney]

Sit him down and talk to him and tell him how you feel, but just don't attack him. Say stuff like how you feel overwhelmed by his constant communication and you'd like him to slow it down. Don't accuse him of anything, just tell him how you feel.

Or stop answering his calls and texts. It's a little ruder, but he'll get the point. lol

 

[cindys_castle2011]

Sit him down and talk to him and tell him how you feel, but just don't attack him. Say stuff like how you feel overwhelmed by his constant communication and you'd like him to slow it down. Don't accuse him of anything, just tell him how you feel.

Or stop answering his calls and texts. It's a little ruder, but he'll get the point. lol

Haha, thanks.

I did stop replying to his texts and answering his calls though. Last night he kept trying to talk me into letting him stop by so I could burn a cd for him. I found it a tad weird, because I live like 20 minutes away.

I was with my boyfriend at the time he kept texting me that, and he took my phone and texted "this is gp, stop texting my girlfriend". And he replied something like "okay, i guess so.. but only because i like u."

So I guess that worked, but thanks (

 

[TinkRockz106]

Just tell your ex that his calls and texts messages are getting annoying. And tell him that the text messages are filling up your inbox!!

 

[crazytp93]

You could always block his number too.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

You could always block his number too.

My old phone you could actually do that. You could just go to the number and under settings or somewhere you could block it like that, without having to call the phone company.

But last night he texted me again. Mainly because LSU won the Championship((

Anyways, I said something like 'oh, i know'. He kept on texting me just the most random things. And then he kept trying to get me to talk to him.. like in a certain way. I would never text back and when I would it would just be like 'yeah' or 'ok' or 'cool'

Well about 12:30am I got this picture text from him, THANKFULLY the phone I'm using now.. the picture text download is messed up. But I asked him what it was.. and it was what I thought it was. Ugh.

Of coarse I told my boyfriend, and of coarse he got mad. At him, not me. He texted him telling him to leave me alone. My ex texted me after and like flipped out, cussing me out and just everything you could think of. I just kept texting him back saying, 'mmk bye'. He finally quit after about 2am

Blahh, boys

 

[PurpleDucky]

wow, what an effin pervert!
i would seriously block him if he's going to be like
(i hope i'm thinking the right stuff pertaining to how he wanted you to talk and the picture he sent)

 

[JulielovesDisney]

My old phone you could actually do that. You could just go to the number and under settings or somewhere you could block it like that, without having to call the phone company.

But last night he texted me again. Mainly because LSU won the Championship((

Anyways, I said something like 'oh, i know'. He kept on texting me just the most random things. And then he kept trying to get me to talk to him.. like in a certain way. I would never text back and when I would it would just be like 'yeah' or 'ok' or 'cool'

Well about 12:30am I got this picture text from him, THANKFULLY the phone I'm using now.. the picture text download is messed up. But I asked him what it was.. and it was what I thought it was. Ugh.

Of coarse I told my boyfriend, and of coarse he got mad. At him, not me. He texted him telling him to leave me alone. My ex texted me after and like flipped out, cussing me out and just everything you could think of. I just kept texting him back saying, 'mmk bye'. He finally quit after about 2am

Blahh, boys

Jeez! What a perv! I think you need to definitely block his number if he's sending you stuff like that. That's sexual harrassment.

If he doesn't stop and it starts getting bad like that again, I'll tell your parents and if it keeps getting worse, I'd even get authority involved. It sounds like he can't take a hint and likes being gross.

 

[crazytp93]

Wow. You should just call the Phone company and have them block it for you.

 

[Tinkerbell2000]

Tell him to give you a break .....................

 

[BabyPiglet]

Wow, what a pervy jerk! (I would say more, but it's not DIS-appropriate.) I was going to say just talk to him about his overwhelming communication, but now, just ignore him. Or you could call the phone company or police and try to have his number blocked.

Personally, I'd have my boyfriend go have a 'talk' with him, but maybe that's just me.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

Wow, what a pervy jerk! (I would say more, but it's not DIS-appropriate.) I was going to say just talk to him about his overwhelming communication, but now, just ignore him. Or you could call the phone company or police and try to have his number blocked.

Personally, I'd have my boyfriend go have a 'talk' with him, but maybe that's just me.

Haha((;

Him and his older brother kept wanting too, but I told them he wasn't worth it. Just to let it go. He hasnt texted me since that night, I'm happy. lol. Thanks guys (

 

[catycatcat4]

Cant you take legal action after the picture?

And at this point i dont think you need to nicely tell em to leave you alone

 

[cindys_castle2011]

Cant you take legal action after the picture?

And at this point i dont think you need to nicely tell em to leave you alone

Not necessarily, the picture text download isn't working on the phone I'm using. So I never saw it, but he told me what it was. If I went to the authorities with all of this, I'd have no proof of him sending it or texting me crap like that.

 

[DISKATER69]

Ok let me finish this once and for all. Im a dude. This is what you need to do:

You need to find someone that likes him and try to get them to go out. If he has another girlfriend, he won't care about you. Remember how this didn't happen until he had no girlfriend?

 

[Princess Sarah 92]

just stop responding/
but if you're one of those people who 'dont wanna be rude' [like me lol]
just turn your phone over
this might sound weird but i do it all the time
when i dont wanna text someone, i turn my phone over
that way, i cant see if they texted back or not
and then i dont feel bad about it
and a few hours later ill reply lol
it could work!

 

[Sparx]

turn your phone off. or just ignore him. he'll get the message.

by the way, he seems like a d-bag to break up with you, and then as soon as his other girl leaves him, he comes crawling back. jmho.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

turn your phone off. or just ignore him. he'll get the message.

by the way, he seems like a d-bag to break up with you, and then as soon as his other girl leaves him, he comes crawling back. jmho.

Oh trust me he is.

He broke up with his ex for me in July, then broke up with me in August for her. My boyfriend and I have been dating since October, so now he see's that I'm happy and in a serious relationship, so he and his girlfriend broke up, and he expected me just to run back to him now.

I'm not gonna worry about it though. I told him to leave me alone and to might as well forget all about me. I haven't heard from him since.

 

[Sparx]

Oh trust me he is.

He broke up with his ex for me in July, then broke up with me in August for her. My boyfriend and I have been dating since October, so now he see's that I'm happy and in a serious relationship, so he and his girlfriend broke up, and he expected me just to run back to him now.

I'm not gonna worry about it though. I told him to leave me alone and to might as well forget all about me. I haven't heard from him since.

well its good he's not bothering you anymore.