How do you fix a broken heart..?

[Katchakat]

Guys, I need some help... I asked out a guy and he walked away.. Am I offending?! I have no idea wat's going on so plz help me..

 

[Babyjustrun]

Did you approach him again as to why he walked away?
If he meant no, then it was rude for him to not give you an answer.
If he meant yes, maybe he's shy? Confused.
There's a million different ways to look at this situation.

 

[catycatcat4]

maybe he thought you wehre jokeing around

 

[Katchakat]

I"m a very serious girl, even when kidding around.. I dont think he thought I was kidding..

 

[catycatcat4]

he could be shocked

 

[MissPotatoHead]

sometimes guys are just...either stupid or like..."Whoa...I'll think." They're stupid sometimes...and most of the time they need advice or some time to think something over. There's a 50% chance of that, and you know the other 50%. I'm not going to be rude by saying it...hey - you never know.

I hope it's the first 50% where he has to think it over!!

GOOD LUCK!!!!
-Stephanie<3

 

[Nitrogen X Laced]

Im sorry to hear about your broken heart.
There could be many reasons why he walked away the only way is to ask him.
The only way I find that "fixes" a broken heart is time.
Only time can help it heal and let you move on.

 

[Loves Disney]

Know that you have your whole life ahead of you and that someday you will be married to the best man for you. Just because this guy walked away doesn't mean anything to you...it means he is unsecure and rude to someone who will make some guy a very good wife.

Trust me when I say you have a bright future...don't let some guy walking away break your heart...he doesn't deserve it, .

Try hiting a pillow really hard imagining that it is him...haha. Just kidding, but seriously...you are still very young...any teen is. You WILL end up with a guy, just perhaps not this fool who can't even talk to you.

If you still really like this guy and he comes back to tell you he freaked out and the circumstances are okay, then go with the flow.

 

[spill]

nothing is honestly as bad as it seems. do you really have a 'broken heart' because some guy you asked out walked away from you? or are you disappointed?

keep things in perspective, and that will heal your 'broken heart' faster than anything else.

p.s. if he said no, he wasn't good enough for you anyways.

 

[MissPotatoHead]

Try hiting a pillow really hard imagining that it is him...haha. Just kidding, but seriously...you are still very young...any teen is. You WILL end up with a guy, just perhaps not this fool who can't even talk to you.

If you still really like this guy and he comes back to tell you he freaked out and the circumstances are okay, then go with the flow.

Hah,...hey. Maybe he'll realize how much you can take this by not letting it bother you&&&he'll be sorry!!

 

[cdrom610]

keeping things in perspective is really important, as is just giving yourself time.. with time it'll get better

but i do understand that sometimes you just need to wallow in your misery (or maybe this is just me.. idk.. sometimes i need to overdramatize things and have a good cry about stuff like this..)

anyway, one of my favorite songs for situations like this is 'what hurts the most' by the rascal flatts.. check it out

 

[Katchakat]

Well, I took Nirtro's advice and asked him... turns out he told me that he can't go out with me becuase his best friend likes me..!
His friend is sweet, but I like (I'll call him by his first name) Brian a lot more. We have a lot more in common, and we have a lot more differences to keep the balence..

 

[Starfire]

Well, I took Nirtro's advice and asked him... turns out he told me that he can't go out with me becuase his best friend likes me..!
His friend is sweet, but I like (I'll call him by his first name) Brian a lot more. We have a lot more in common, and we have a lot more differences to keep the balence..

aww thats really sad You could give his friend a chance if his friend likes you and is nice

 

[Starfire]

Well, I took Nirtro's advice and asked him... turns out he told me that he can't go out with me becuase his best friend likes me..!
His friend is sweet, but I like (I'll call him by his first name) Brian a lot more. We have a lot more in common, and we have a lot more differences to keep the balence..

aww thats really sad You could give his friend a chance if his friend likes you and is nice Anyway goodluck