How do I get husband to fly?

[MarksMom2006]

An opportunity has presented itself for our trip in September. We were scheduled to go to Disney World with our neighbors. Today they called and canceled their trip (I cant say I am upset about this). We had been planning on driving down from MA. But now I really want to fly. My husband is dead set against it. What can I do to get him on the darn plane!! I just dont want to do a 22 hour drive down and then a 22 hour drive home when I can be there in 3 hours!

 

[Mimi Q]

If you are traveling during the Free Dining Promotion, AirTran is offering special airfares through the Walt Disney Travel Company. I got a rate of $129 R/T from Atlanta. Maybe a cheap fare will convince him. Heck, I don't even like the road trip from here.

 

[JimboInLimbo]

A really big sling shot?
In all honesty, how do you get a man to do anything?

 

[RadioFanatic]

I think an understanding behind the reason for not flying would help in giving opinions. If he's scared, I would strongly suggest a trip to the doctor to get him some valium for the trip. If it's money, I would calculate the cost of mileage on the car, gas, overnights if needed and compare it to a trip via air. For us in upstate NY, with the price of gas the way it is, it's much cheaper to fly SW pp (we got the fare for $135 RT) than to put miles on our car, pay gas, etc. even if we don't spend the night somewhere.

 

[MarksMom2006]

If you are traveling during the Free Dining Promotion, AirTran is offering special airfares through the Walt Disney Travel Company. I got a rate of $129 R/T from Atlanta. Maybe a cheap fare will convince him. Heck, I don't even like the road trip from here.

That is a great idea. I am calling right now. Figures! It ended already!

 

[imsorry]

Get him a set of wings

 

[Marseeya]

Just don't nag. My husband convinced me to fly and I hated it. It wasn't so awful on the way down, although I was scared, but on the way back we flew through the tropical storm, plus storms over the Carolinas and I was absolutely terrified. I never want to go through that again.

If he's dead set on driving, just make the most of it and enjoy your trip! We drove last year and it was actually pretty enjoyable.

 

[eclectics]

I'm assuming from your last response that this is a money thing, not a phobia thing. Jet Blue has great everyday fares. I think they leave from Logan but I'm not positive. Also Providence, if that's closer to you. You can book on their website, pick your seats, and print out your tickets.

 

[MarksMom2006]

I'm assuming from your last response that this is a money thing, not a phobia thing. Jet Blue has great everyday fares. I think they leave from Logan but I'm not positive. Also Providence, if that's closer to you. You can book on their website, pick your seats, and print out your tickets.

It is a bit of a mix. My DH just really is not a fan of flying and we hadnt planned on flying so I am trying to crunch numbers to see if I can get the tickets. He is the type where I have to just go and do it. If I ask him, of course he is going to say no.

 

[lovehoney]

Alcohol seems to work for my DH.

He usually gets 1 drink before getting on the plane and it calms him down. I guess it is cheaper than some prescription drugs.

Regarding expense, just keep looking for discounted airfare. Sometimes they pop up at the last minute.

 

[eclectics]

It is a bit of a mix. My DH just really is not a fan of flying and we hadnt planned on flying so I am trying to crunch numbers to see if I can get the tickets. He is the type where I have to just go and do it. If I ask him, of course he is going to say no.

I'm not flying's biggest fan either but I'm very comfortable on Jet Blue. New planes, personal TV screens, leather seats etc. Friendly crew also. I might feel different on a longer flight but NY-Orlando is a very doable flight for me. I even skipped the Xanax last trip! I paid $150 round trip last year (that's a everyday price with no black out days or length of stay restrictions). Not sure what this years fares are. I've driven also, but you really can't beat getting there in less than 3 hours. Enjoy your trip, whatever you decide!

 

[Micca]

He really wants to spend his vacation days driving cross-country? He likes to drive? There's nothing like the discovery of a new turnpike service plaza? He feels like he needs more time with you where scratching his own ear is equi-distant with touching you?

 

[salmoneous]

Explain to your DH that driving leaves you exhausted; flying keeps you rested with lots of free time for *other* *things*.

 

[Tazicket]

I'm sure you won't have much of a problem convincing him that it makes more financial sense, with gas prices being what they are. Just whatever you do, if you are able to get him on the plane, DON'T say what I said to my Dad the first time we flew anywhere: "Look! If we crash in the ocean, the seats can be used as flotation devices!"

 

[crz4mm2]

If you find a way, let me know. Mine won't fly either so I would love to find a way

 

[Tigger&Belle]

Explain to your DH that driving leaves you exhausted; flying keeps you rested with lots of free time for *other* *things*.

Of course that was going to be my suggestion, too!

 

[momrek06]

OP: Let me start by saying I HATE TO FLY...HATE IT...but when it comes to the choice between driving from MA and flying...I AM GETTING ON THAT PLANE NO MATTER WHAT IT TAKES....

And it takes 1 bonine, sea bands and ear planes....YUP....!!! And it is basically 2 hours (or so) no biggie when you compare that to 22 hours in a CAR....

Good Luck, OP, I am with you...try your best to get him to fly. You do not want to be tired when you all get to the WORLD!!!!

 

[Gary M]

If your dates are a little flexible make sure to check the fares a day or two later or earlier. The cost may be less according to the days you fly. May also help.

 

[Lorix2]

My DH sounds just like yours, I have to kind of take charge of things or he'll drag his feet and not give me a definite answer about things. I do know he is afraid of flying and I know his dr will give him something for the trip. I'm sure you're DH could do this too.

We've driven the 22 hour route with our kids 3X times now and on the last drive home, I vowed never again, it's SUCH a long way home when you are tired and especially with kids. He loves to drive and see new places, but I like the idea of being there in 3 hours vs. 2 days.

I kept asking him if he'd fly for an adult only trip this August and wouldn't commit....so one day before I bought the tics, I called him and asked him if he could get the vacation time and I was ready to book a DING fare on SW and what he thought about that, etc.....he said it wouldn't be a problem.

I booked the tics a week ago and he still hasn't asked how much they were, what the flight times are, etc... BUT I know for sure that we are going

Sometimes our men need a gentle but firm push, especially mine...try to talk things through with him and remind him it's still the safest way to travel and people do it everyday.

Hope it works out for you

 

[MarksMom2006]

Thanks everyone! I am still working on him and he said we would discuss it more tomorrow. I too have a child (3 years old) and I know he made it through the trip last year but we were literally ready to sell the car to buy the airline tickets home. I am not pushing DH YET. HAHA!! It will be a little more to fly but it is so worth it!