Disney Deluxe resorts are not very Deluxe. Disney DVC rooms are a step below the Deluxe rooms. No mousekeeping is a big one. The details are missing.
I haven't been in a Disney Deluxe hotel for several years, but issues with the DVC resorts over other hotels I stay in:
Rooms are much more worn. Linens are not high quality. Bedding in general is very week compared to a Hilton or Hyatt. Towels are not very plush. Matresses tend to be not great.
Lack of room configuration ability - i.e. I can't get a king bed in a studio with DVC - but that's made up for by being able to get a multi room unit for something less than a Disney suite would cost.
On the mattresses....I have to say we came home and shopped for the closest thing to the Disney king mattress at AKV. We LOVED it and actually bought the closest model to it. It was a Sleepy's, and that's where we went to find the same thing. Just my two cents....
As far as the towels go, I never really like too plush because all the little fibers rub off onto wet skin, and they aren't all that absorbent. I go for a "rougher" towel that does the job the first time....again, just my two cents.
I guess I'm just saying, some of that is just personal preference.
As far as deluxe, whether or not they are more deluxe than the hotels, I can't comment on, as we haven't stayed in a WDW hotel in 10 years, but the fact that a hotel room is just a hotel room and a villa offers so much more, we prefer the villas, they are more "homey", albeit, not so much "deluxe".
To each his own, and if you're in Disney, heck, that's a GOOD thing!
