How could you NOT break up with this guy?!

[Skywalker]

Here's a situation my friend told me about her sister.

The sister is dating some guy. They have been dating nearly a year.

So, some big "party" or something is coming up, something to do with a big graduation event or something (sorry for being vague - I don't know most of the details!). He has been mentioning this party for some time.

Now, the sister has a room mate. Room mate is very beautiful and trying to become a model.

Last night, the boyfriend sat the sister down and talked about the party and how making a good impression and impressing certain people would mean a lot to him, and therefore, would she mind if she took THE ROOM MATE as his date, just to impress the guys!

How freakin' insensitive is that? Isn't he basically saying she is not good enough in some way so he wants to pretend someone else is his girlfriend?

I am not looking to give them advice or anything, I am just curious about others' responses.

I know I would drop him like a hot potato. Jerk.

Is there anyone to whom this would not be a big deal????

 

[Bren's Mom]

If the sister doesn't dump this guy then she needs some help. That's outrageous!

 

[lovemygoofy]

I'd puntkick him out so fast he wouldn't feel it until the next day. I guess the guy thinks having a "hot" girl is going to impress someone he doesn't have much to impress with on his own.

 

[tonilea]

How could you not break his FACE? I can't imagine!

 

[Eeyore'sthebest]

If the sister doesn't dump this guy then she needs some help. That's outrageous!

ITA!!

 

[cteddiesgirl]

What a complete jerk!

He'd be gone so fast his head would be spinning.
He must not have very good self-esteem and has no regard for women and their feelings.

 

[wvjules]

I'd leave him so fast his head would spin.

What was her answer!?!?!?!?!?

Why does he feel the need to impress anyone anyway? I got over wanting to impress anyone ages ago.

 

[momof1princess]

after the guy picked his teeth up off the floor, i'd have promptly shown him the door and told him if he ever got within my sight again, he'd better have paramedics nearby. what a LOSER!

 

[Carly_Roach]

Just what does the friend's sister think's going to happen if/when he runs into these impressionable people later on and he's got her on his arm instead of the model wanna-be that they met at the party?

Her answer should be, "If my roommate wants to date you, she's more than welcome to. You're free now." Cut her losses now.

 

[jrmasm]

Thanks for the laugh. Think how clever this dummy thought he was coming up with such a great idea.

 

[Gabes_mommy]

That is one of the worst, most insensitive things I've heard in a while.

What a disgusting person.

Did she break up with him?

 

[JessicaR]

I know I would drop him like a hot potato. Jerk.

Is there anyone to whom this would not be a big deal????

Yup, he is a jerk!

 

[Robinrs]

I thought I heard ALL the classic jerk lines! This one's PRICELESS!!

 

[HM]

That poor girl. What a shame. Jerky boyfriend. Ugh.

 

[Darsa]

I would not drop him. Not NEARLY violent enough. Drop-KICK him, maybe...



ETA: I certainly HOPE that the roommate would say No Stinkin' Way! or something to that effect...

 

[cinmell]

Here's a situation my friend told me about her sister.

The sister is dating some guy. They have been dating nearly a year.

So, some big "party" or something is coming up, something to do with a big graduation event or something (sorry for being vague - I don't know most of the details!). He has been mentioning this party for some time.

Now, the sister has a room mate. Room mate is very beautiful and trying to become a model.

Last night, the boyfriend sat the sister down and talked about the party and how making a good impression and impressing certain people would mean a lot to him, and therefore, would she mind if she took THE ROOM MATE as his date, just to impress the guys!

How freakin' insensitive is that? Isn't he basically saying she is not good enough in some way so he wants to pretend someone else is his girlfriend?

I am not looking to give them advice or anything, I am just curious about others' responses.

I know I would drop him like a hot potato. Jerk.

Is there anyone to whom this would not be a big deal????

What did your friend's sister say to the jerk? Please tell me she dumped him!

I wonder if he ever asked the room mate? If so, I hope she says no.

 

[Kim&Chris]

What a shame. She must have felt just wonderful after being told that he'd prefer to take the roommate in lieu of her.

I'd say "don't let the door hit 'ya where the good Lord split 'ya" and walk his sorry butt to the door.

 

[Skywalker]

Hi,

No, she did not break up with him!

She's "really upset and hurt" but she "forgives" him.

 

[clutter]

Hi,

No, she did not break up with him!

She's "really upset and hurt" but she "forgives" him.

She needs to run, not walk to a therapist. What about the roommate? Why in the world would she agree to go anywhere with such a sleazebag??

 

[jrmasm]

So who is he taking to the party?