I don't think your child is any more safe when they just hit the mark than they are if they are just beneath it. It comes down to the fact that there has to be a cut off point somewhere, and Disney has to stick to it exactly. There can be no almost tall enough, or you would have a bunch of parents saying "Well, if Jimmy can go on and he is a quarter on an inch too short, why Can't Sarah Jane go on when she is only a third of an inch too short?" The line has to be drawn somewhere, and they have to stick to it.
I don't blame Disney at all. I blame all the parents who think it is a cute idea to try to get around any other measurment devise. Can't use wrist bands, as people will take them off and put them on another child. Can't use hand stamps, as people will just rub their kid's hands together. Can't just measure once at the beginning of the line, as one parent will distract the CM doing the measuring and the other will run by with a child who is clearly too short. Seen that happen with my own eyes!![]()
This. The reality is that Disney will get sued (and lose) even if the parent presented a notarized statement absolving them of all liability in the event that said parent wanted to take their child on a ride where they didn't meet the height recommendations (if they were only recommendations). It's CYA.
Personally, I have taken my kids on rides in where in other circumstances they would have been just under the height requirement. And if anything had happened, I'd have taken the blame.
Not a single time last year (he was 41") when we rode everything he could. This year at home he was 44.75" so I was fully expecting him to be checked especially on EE and Space mountain - no one ever even batted an eye. I was actually hoping they'd check him as I wanted to confirm he would be safe on the rides (esp Space Mountain since I couldn't sit next to him lol) but nope! I even asked at one point to confirm, nah.. he's fine. I never saw any other children being measured either. I thought they'd be a little more strict/consistent personally. I wouldn't plan on them not checking because of our experience, I was just a little shocked that no one ever checked my son once.