...you are right with your fears, you will have to check in first...they wont sell you them prior(meaning that you cant be staying at say the Raddison)...but the good, or even better, great news...I HIGLY doubt that you wont be able to get enite tix.....I have only heard from this board once that enite was sold out...but at the same time, Disney wont tell you if its sold out, or even how many have been sold(its one of the Dis policys again...the same with annual attendance ...they dont release them, until much later)
When you check in, simply ask right up front, is there an enite, and can I get my tickets....you'll be told that although theyre tickets per say, you have to exchange them ect.........however, even the CMs will tell you....this is worth it..150%...and you would be surprized to know how many resort folks have no idea about enite.......they dont really advertize it(Disney that is).
I am unsure about themolding enite tickets..I suppose you could call and ask...it wouldnt hurt to try at least...you never know what will happen with Disney sometimes..LOL
Atotty...same thing..you could call in advance, tell them to hold some for you...but really...depending when your going(which I assume your both hitting WDW in May....I think youll have no problem getting enite admission!