Housing advice

The biggest issue I have with a 12 month lease is that break fee.
Like I mentioned def. check with your lease contract but I have seen that in most cases breaking the lease in the first portion of it is less penalizing than towards the later half.

When we moved into our rental house back in March 2013 before building our current home we actually paid triple rent (my apartment, my husband's apartment, the rental house) from March until end of April and then double rent (my husband's apartment and the rental house) from April til end of June because breaking the lease for each of our places was more penalizing at that point and was more money. However, if we had broke the lease in the first couple of months it would have saved money in the long run. Just depends on how your lease is written and what part of your lease you were in when you broke it.
 
I'm sure no one will agree with me, but if you don't *have* to buy a house in this current, hot, sellers market, then don't.
Oh no I agree with you, it's specifically why I mentioned just how long my area's housing market has lasted. It's been going on 6 1/2 years at this point though it ramped up very high in 2020 due to stay at home orders/pandemic, stayed mostly high in 2021 and is still going strong. Every time they mention "will it cool down"..it's usually no. Right now the issue is more new home buyers or younger buyers having the hardest time going up against older individuals or those with prior home they can sell to get the money.

It really sucks for those looking to buy a house. I think the issue is how long will you be willing to wait for a home and that's the part that is hard to predict. If it were in my area I would tell someone are you willing to wait years for a house and to some that answer may be a no.
 
Are you working with a realtor who is workingfor you?

Our son and dil needed to buy a house last fall (dream job offer in their college town).

The had over 20 homes snatched up before they could blink as soon as the home went on the market.

Their realtor finally got wind of a home that was not yet on the market, but would be in the next day.

The realtor took videos of the home and sent to our son. Son and dil bought the home a little over asking price to ensure they could get it without ever stepping foot into it.

I also wonder if you could just wait this market out. I get it I'm looking for a new to me auto, but the prices only seem to be going up. But I'm still going to wait as long as I can.
 
I doubt the housing market is going to improve over the next 12 months. You are going to have to be a LOT more aggressive if you want a chance at getting anything. How aggressive you wanna be will determine what you should do in the short term. Agents can only do so much, they cant pull a rabbit out of a hat.
 

OP: Of course one more thing to consider is that mortgage interest rates seem to be on the rise. They're still quite low, but I checked just now and the current rate is a half a point higher than the rate we're paying for a house we bought in October. If the rates continue to rise, this will affect housing prices--i.e., they may decrease, but your monthly outlay and/or how much house you could afford may be adversely affected.

I cannot predict what will happen and, btw, neither can anyone else. Even if a year from now some housing expert quotes what they said this afternoon and it pans out the way they predicted, they just got lucky.

Perhaps you have a rate lock on your mortgage preapproval. I hope you have both, and I send you good wishes that things will work out fantastically well for you. Keep the faith.
 
Sorry you’re in a tough position, OP, and I don’t really have any good advice for you. We did an interstate move and the whole process of moving our things, selling the old house, house hunting in the new location, closing on the new home, and getting everything moved a second time took exactly a year. We signed a six-month lease initially and then went month-to-month once we were fully moved to our new location and ready to buy. We had to float the cost of two residences during most of that year to make it work. I’m so thankful we got into our new home before the world went crazy.

Personally, if I was you and I was reasonably comfortable with my current living situation, I’d probably just sit tight and hold off on buying until things settled down some and/or I’d saved up more money to give me more flexibility. Then again, I’ve heard stories from people in my area who had their rent jacked up 20% or more when it came time to renew their leases and they can’t find anywhere else to rent because everything is waitlisted, so waiting could turn out to be a bad idea, too. It’s so hard to say. (Your state might have laws against those types of price hikes so maybe that wouldn’t be a concern for you. My state doesn’t have those regulations because we love freedom, or something.) :rolleyes:

Mostly I’m commenting because I just saw a thread on Nextdoor where people were discussing the difficulties of buying a house in this market when you aren’t a cash buyer, and I thought I’d pass on some of their suggested tactics. One, get on Nextdoor and ask/grovel for any leads on homes that will be hitting the market soon so you can try to beat the masses to their door, offer in hand. Or, better yet, get them to sell to you without listing. In the current climate, I’d think most people would want to put the house on the market so they could benefit from a bidding war, but you never know. Two, literally start knocking on doors in your desired location and ask people if they’d be willing to sell their home to you. Two people on the thread said this had been successful for them and it was how they’d managed to buy the homes they were currently sitting in. Actually, our realtor had done something similar in that he sent out letters to all the houses in the neighborhood we wanted to buy in asking owners to contact him if they’d be willing to sell. We did get a couple of responses, though neither house worked for us. The third suggestion was from a realtor and it was a doozy. She said she’s been advising her clients, if they’re able, to have a family member buy the house with cash for them and then turn around and sell it directly to the client with a mortgage. :faint: So, if you happen to have any wealthy family or friends who can buy a house for you and you hadn’t yet thought to ask for a tiny favor…

Like I said, I’d probably just wait.
 
Are you working with a realtor who is workingfor you?

Our son and dil needed to buy a house last fall (dream job offer in their college town).

The had over 20 homes snatched up before they could blink as soon as the home went on the market.

Their realtor finally got wind of a home that was not yet on the market, but would be in the next day.

The realtor took videos of the home and sent to our son. Son and dil bought the home a little over asking price to ensure they could get it without ever stepping foot into it.

I also wonder if you could just wait this market out. I get it I'm looking for a new to me auto, but the prices only seem to be going up. But I'm still going to wait as long as I can.
Yup, a good Realtor is what you need. Similar situation with my daughter. Except she had looked at the house across the street which was midway through a remodel, so no way to know what it would look like when it was done. The next day Realtor got wind that the house across the street was going up for sale and was move in ready. My daughter's offer was one of three submitted at full asking price BEFORE the house hit the MLS. The Realtor also included a "love letter" with the offer pointing out my daughter a a single working professional looking to occupy the house. The two other offers were from companies looking to rent it out. I think that is why the owner, who had lived there for 10 years as their family home, selected my daughter's offer.
 
That market definitely crashed in most areas and it's taken years for those people who bought at that height to recover

the home we sold in 2006 JUST within the last 6 months has been valued at what we sold it for. 16 YEARS it's taken-and that's just to barely squeek up to our sales price :eek: that housing market was NUTS just like it is in some areas now.
 
Meant to reply last night, but time got away from me.

Not knowing what the future will hold when it comes to housing prices and rates makes me hesitant. Both with waiting and with buying. But I am getting to a point where rent is getting out of hand. Even with current house prices, at least I would be putting that money INTO something.

I don't have anyone I can stay with right now... so it is house or apartment. I could maybe go down to a one bedroom but I would have to then pay for a storage unit. Which ends up being about the same amount of money.

My realtor is working on getting us some showings tomorrow and I have at least one open house for Sunday (no openings tomorrow for showings).

Gonna talk to my aunt and realtor tomorrow and hopefully get some blunt advice.

I also thank you all. I will be taking the advice here as well.

Right now though, I am tired and exhausted and stressed out. I am physically feeling the stress today.
 
Sorry you are feeling so stressed over this. In the long run it will work out, but the process itself is certainly stressful.
One thing I wanted to mention is to make sure you are pre-approved not just pre-qualified. That can make a huge difference on offers.

I think if I were in your shoes, I would probably extend for 3 months because that opens up the Spring market with more houses becoming available. That would also relieve a little time pressure on you.

Best of luck to you and keep us posted. We are rooting for you.
 
Sorry you are feeling so stressed over this. In the long run it will work out, but the process itself is certainly stressful.
One thing I wanted to mention is to make sure you are pre-approved not just pre-qualified. That can make a huge difference on offers.

I think if I were in your shoes, I would probably extend for 3 months because that opens up the Spring market with more houses becoming available. That would also relieve a little time pressure on you.

Best of luck to you and keep us posted. We are rooting for you.

I am pre-approved actually for 3 different options. Well, 2 FHA but one has a higher buy amount (still within my budget) and one with a 0 down payment. But that one is pretty much useless because it is only for $179k which does not exist in my needs.

I keep telling myself, what is meant to be will be.
 
I was sort of in the same position of losing house after house to other offers. I ended up going with new construction. My realtor was a godsend through that process. He even got the builder to throw in some upgrades for free. I spent slightly more but I got what I wanted, and a brand new turn key home. Just an idea.
 


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