Hospice Opinions

[WEDWDW]

For anyone who has experience with this service,would you recommend it to others?

Any negatives for the patient and/or patient's family?

 

[Suger Mag]

I found hospice was a great help and enabled a lot of services once my parents started it. It made the dying process a lot easier for each of my parents when the time came and for me as their caregiver. Some things you cannot prevent no matter how much you want to, and having that service was a comfort and huge assistance.

 

[FreeTime]

We found it helpful. They were able to provide resources as well for things we would have been lost with on our own.

 

[AussieFan8]

1. Hospice varies by hospital. Make sure the hospital and their hospice meets your needs/expectations.
2. Ask a lot of questions about what you can expect and how often hospice will come in to the home before the patient leaves the hospital (assuming the hospice is at home).
3. Again, if done at home, make sure the intake is done the same day, as soon after the patient comes home as possible.
4. Talk to them about the patient's ongoing medications and how/whether they'll be continued at home.
5. Look into hospital at home programs to see if that would be an option. It is my understanding that far more in care is provided in these programs.

If I think of more, I will post again. We unfortunately had a rough experience with hospice earlier this year which has made me think a lot about what we could have done differently to make it go smoother.

ETA: If at home, have an understanding of how much lifting and things of that nature will be needed, and think realistically about whether the caregiver(s) will be able to physically handle it.

 

[Marrila]

Just to note, in the US many hospice programs are not directly under just one particular hospital. They may work with hospitals and physicians in an area, but the hospice itself is often an independent provider.

 

[Marrila]

We found it helpful. They were able to provide resources as well for things we would have been lost with on our own.

This describes our experience. I will always be thankful for the thoughtful care my mother received.

 

[flyingdumbo127]

My Dad and I found Hospice a comfort during my beloved Grandma's transition. Hug to all in need of this care.

 

[Threehearts]

There were so many good things about hospice for my father. Two nurses came to the house several times a week for dressing changes, pain meds etc. This went on for several months and they became tremendous supports. My parents considered them friends.They were great. Unfortunately for us, three weeks before my father died, one of the nurses went on a cruise which we were so happy about. She sure deserved a vacation. That nurse said that there would be a substitute nurse along with the other regular hospice nurse and she'd see my father soon. We never saw the nurse again who went on vacation and her partner whom we loved, rarely showed up for planned nursing care. It was kind of a mess.

My father fell in the bathroom at home and it was clear that he was actively dying. We had no choice but to put him in a nursing home because all the hospice facilities were full and we couldn't get home care. The home hospice nurses just never returned our calls and we never saw them again. It was strange. A nursing home is what the hospice company said was our only choice. My father was taken in an ambulance and when he got into his room, a social worker came by and asked him if he liked movies, or going to the solarium for music performances and said that she read in his chart that he liked golf and does he still play. It wasn't the best place for soon dying person in agonizing pain but they meant well.

I got my father pain meds and anti-anxiety medication. After 48 hours of him crying and writhing in pain but unable to speak, I suggested that maybe something more needed to be done. To be blunt, stronger medication. My father was a Ranger, Airborne and a POW during the Korean War. He was burned from the waist down and was dying from inoperable gangrene in those burns. I only cared that he was calm and not afraid when he died and he was.

Despite the glitches, I could not believe how fantastic the regular hospice nurses were. I am a currently licensed RN although I've been out of the ICU for some time. What I did pales in comparison to the nurses we had. These nurses were so compassionate, so expert in the medical needs of a patient and were incredible advocates. I highly recommend hospice with the caveat that the agency you use may get overwhelmed with other patients and the end of life plan you decided upon may need to become more flexible.