Thanks to the poster who gave the information about the Orange Co Sheriff's website.

That is very interesting to read what has been reported to the sheriff's dept and for what (for anywhere in the county).
From the website:
The accuracy of this information is based solely on the reports received by the Crime Analysis Unit during the specified time periods.
The information is based on initial complaints and does not reflect the following:
UCR (Uniform Crime Report) reporting or statistics
Number of Arrests, cases that are Unfounded or cases that are reclassified.
The report below covers Property Crimes and Robberies reported to the Orange County Sheriff's Office. The report provides 90 days of data as of 7 days ago.
AUTO BURGLARY 070101682 1980 BROADWAY 10/11/2007
AUTO BURGLARY 070098530 1195 E BUENA VISTA DR 10/03/2007
AUTO BURGLARY 070097897 1195 E BUENA VISTA DR 10/01/2007
And not to say Disney could not be at fault for the reservation mix up. But the responsibility would fall under AAA, whom you booked with. And I have no idea who screwed up what. But would anyone expect AAA to say -- Oh we screwed up. It's our fault don't blame (fill in the blank of whatever place you are staying)?
Heck, AAA South even lost my car for days once a tow truck driver they commissioned took it to lord knows where. AAA did not want to take any responsibility nor even help find it. We darn near got an attorney just for that alone.
This confuses me.
"But, the problem was: If we had booked the trip thru Disney direct, I quoted it online before we booked thru AAA, the price would have been the same price we paid (plus the small discount of course, but my info shows what the price was before discounts) was the same price I quoted online thru Disney with waterparks. And we specifically discussed it and verbally confirmed it was included when I made the reservation."
If you booked through AAA, I would think your issues of not receiving certain services were with AAA, if your paperwork stated that is what you had. Too little too late -- but as has been mentioned review your AAA paperwork.
It could have been (not to say it was) Disney was in a bad situation of having to provide your group services that were not in the reservation from AAA.
Hopefully all is straightened out for you. You have had a rough time. And your story reminds travelers to always be aware of their surroundings and what can happen.
I am sure you feel violated and very frustrated. Sadly, these are lessons learned for future travel anywhere.