Not to sound lofty, or my kids are better than yours..but it's true! My dd is starting her 3rd year of ballet this year and it's been very evident from the beginning. The other girls want to form little groups within the group and exclude other ones they don't know or don't like...and they are only 6!!! So, we have dealt with this since the 4yo class. They do it at church nursery too... & it's the kids who are gone from home all day. My dd wanted to quit ballet before recital last year because the majority of kids in the class just wanted to play and they are all so very silly. DD is mature for her age and takes her ballet seriously!! ha!! Even her teacher has talked to me about how good she was in class, followed rules and was there to do dance...not make little cliques. She has enough this year ,she is doing a homeschool class during the day this year!! Our class will be at 11:00 and it will be other hsers her age. Her teacher said this will be one of her easier/better classes because hs kids act better and are easier to teach. She was an elementary teacher before she went back to dance!!!! So, don't worry about straight lines!! My boys sure don't want to do it!! How many times in real life do we ever have to stay in a straight line and not speak?
Okay, that was long, but I just wanted to add my 2 cents...oh, and my kids have best friends that are not the same age as they are. And, all my best friends are at least 4 years older than me..except for one. So...don't let all that stuff about socialization get ya'll bogged down!!! I never really hung out with kids my age and I went to ps. In fact, several of my classmates are in jail(mainly drugs), have been married and divorced numerous times,and some even still live back and forth with their parents!!! Not that I am judging people for divorce!!! But, these girls are marrying/divorcing (guys too!) like they are just breaking up with boyfriends. and the poor kids are always caught in the middle!!! At least, we can kinda choose more who they hang out with than just let them be influenced 8 hours a day by people who do NOT have the same standards or convictions that we do.
Also---I just enjoy teaching them and watching them learn!! Don't ya'll? It's rewarding for me too!! Yes, we have slow days and sometimes things just don't click, but over all...what a blessing!!!![/COLOR][/FONT]