quandrea
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That's what I plan to do, and yes he originally said it was up to me but has since changed his mind. The problem is that I have looked up the education system in this country and have seen how bad it is, he has not. He has no exposure to how the US is falling behind in major subjects, his mother is from Finland (right now #1 education system in the world) and she supports me home schooling! I am overly frustrated right now and worried. He has told me that I will not be able to convince him home schooling is the best. Like I said one of us is going to loose and I fear it will be me.
My original plan was to home school until my daughter got pulled for the charter school 1. I was not thinking it would happen so soon and 2. why would I stop now when she is learning so great? I mean she is 5 and already has 21 sight words these are words she can pick out of a book and read. Tomorrow we are staring 100 easy lesson's to teach your child to read and I know she is going to do great at it. I wish she already knew how to read because if she was to read a book to him I know that would change his mind. I am so happy I have you guys on here I do not know what I would do if I did not have people to talk to who understand. He is trying to tell me I can still do the lessons with her after school but what is the point then of sending her to school?
Such a tough spot to be in. It is so difficult when spouses are not on the same page. All I can suggest is to talk it out. Let him know why you want to homeschool. I think so many people fear homeschooling will ruin their children socially. Reassure him that you will make of point of getting your daughter out there for social opportunities. I quite frankly feel the social aspect of school is overrated.
As for schools being able to do better than you--not true. How can it be? What could be better than a highly invested, loving teaching giving one to one instruction? Nothing. Good luck. Try not to think of it as one of you winning. Tough though.