I'm so happy I found this group

I'm having a REALLY hard time finding a HS group in NYC the majority of them are in Yahoo, and for the life of me no matter how hard I try to sign on I can't get to any of the groups so don't know what i'm going to do about that.
Another thing is and i'm pretty sure some of you may know, my state NYC requires quarterly reports which has me a bit scared, and also testing once she enters 3rd grade (another scary what to do thought) but from what I have gathered I think I can give her the tests myself, I read somewhere that I can purchase the tests thru Hewitt Homeschooling? but not sure any info on this would be also so helpful.
I have sooo many questions and am scared out of my mind, my DH has so much trust in me, its very stressful I don't want to fail my DD or DH.
Thank you all so much!!! from what I have gathered these are on my list please tell me what you think
-Time4learning (core)
-K-5 (supplement)
-Hewitt Homeschooling (for tests)
Will look into the Brainpopjr and Teaching Techbooks mentioned above for Math, Science and Social Studies.
One thing I do know I gave DD the sample from Time4learning and she LOVED it! did not want to get off the computer lol!, but I also want her doing worksheets too. Again Thank you, Thank you!!!