Thanks! That sounds like it! the ones I found had eggs in it...DIdn't care for that idea and I knew when I made it before it didn't have eggs!
DOn't remember adding rum...
I actually used Jack Daniels! My friends died! It was my dad's so it has been sitting for about 18 years! Very mellow as some would say! I personally say YUCK! But mix it with some cream, and coccoa...and I was a happy camper in the winter!