We went to MGM till about 1 -- not crowded at all. Could not believe how empty it was.Hung out at SAB in the afternoon, went to Narcossees for dinner, watched MK fireworks from Narcoossees, drove back to BC and walked down to the International Gateway and saw Illuminations and 4th fw from there. It was a perfect day.
One thing our family realized last summer was that we loved Disney even when it was hot and crowded (most of our trips have been off season). I think your plan and your attitude has a lot to do with how much fun you will have.
THE PLAN: Go to the EE park, hit the big stuff, get fp for others -- then leave or have lunch (with ps). Go back to the hotel for the afternoon and enjoy the pools. Head back out in the evening(to a different park) -- make ps ahead of time and enjoy.
THE ATTITUDE: Have fun. Enjoy the little things, be thankful you are in Disney, slow down a little. Break up your park time with the smaller things -- DQ, Minature Golf, walking the boardwalk, visitng a resort for a meal, rent bikes, watch a movie, visit DTD, go night swimming.
We hate crowds and thought this trip were be just ok. We had just as much fun as any other trip. Now we are not affraid of crowds and are planning to go President's week.