Oh, Cookie....
I am sorry to hear this. I hear your pain in your post.
Hold on to yourself, hold on to your Mom. Prayfully she will get through this without blaming herself.
As my Dad once said, our time is written in the wind before we're born. Short or long, it's already known.
I will pray for your family and as I told you the other day, if you want to talk to someone who's BEEN there and is still there, I'm here.
God bless,
Robinrs