daneenm
Just call me Pollyanna ...
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Hi,
Thanks again everyone for posting. I am getting more nervous as we get closer. We had our last teaching appointment yesterday. Ryan has been a diabetic for 1 month! Now I sort of know how to manage him--how will I count the carbs in disney. Is there nutritional info anywhere? Will the disney dining plan let him have an appy instead of a dessert? I wonder what the change in activity level will do to his sugars. I think I may have jumped the gun booking this trip. I felt so guilty, like I missed something. Plus I felt really bad that I found him so annoying when it wasn't his fault. He still is annoying sometimes, the insulin didn't help that! I really appreciate all of the replies--even if I don't always reply back. By the way, I did read almost everything on the links selket posted--thanks
Deanna
Deanna,
We found that we were very nervous for every 'first' after diagnosis. First dinner out, first overnight with the grandparents, first swim practice, first trip to DL...you get the picture. Once you experience these things, they get a little easier each time.
As for the activity, you can bet that the activity level will have some impact on your son. My son goes low...you will have to find out how your son reacts. How do you find out without getting into a dangerous situation? Test, A LOT! If you are not sure the first day how he reacting, test every hour, if it makes both of you more comfortable. Again, you will pick up pretty quickly how he will respond and be able to act and plan accordingly. I bet after the first day or two you will see the trends.
As for the dessert question, my advice is not to go overboard with the 'no sugar' approach. Again, you have to do what is right for you, but when my son was diagnosed, it was right before Halloween and the holidays. How did I react? I bought toys to give out to trick-or-treaters instead of candy, used Splenda in all of my Christmas baking, etc. Way too far the other direction for us! Splenda ruined the texture of my Biscotti (this was before the baking version, which I have not gone back to try

I think every parent who has a child with T1D wonders how they missed it. Hindsight is 20/20, as we all know. I thought DS was so thirsty because he was getting over a cold. I didn't even notice that he had lost quite a bit of weight. Then suddenly it hit me like a ton of bricks and I knew when I made his appointment what the result would be. You can't jump to the conclusion of illness every time you child acts out, no need to beat yourself up.
Go and have a great time, you will be surprised at how well you can manage.