help

[CastawayJ]

i just made a girl i realy like hate me and would like to know how to make it up to her

she thinks i went to fast in our relationonship and we broke up

1)how can i make it up to her
2)what should i do in futre relationships

 

[Babyjustrun]

1) Do something really sweet (Go on a site like mtv.ca and watch the before prom episodes of Laguna Beach. They're adorable, the guys always think of a sweet way of asking. But in your case, it's a sweet way of saying sorry and hoping that you can talk to her again. Just prove to her how much you care. Well, that's if you want to get back together.)

2) Don't do whatever you did. I don't know exactly what you did so..

 

[Hollister]

a relationship is a two way streak so you both should agree whats a good pace and take it slow. rushing things usually makes the other person uncomfortable. its best to stay in both comfort zones.

 

[Sparx]

I remember you saying something about this earlier.

I don't want to pry too much, but did you know what she was comfortable with? How far past that did you go?

Back off, but don't isolate yourself from her.
Talk to her, and be open and available when she wants to talk to you.

I'm going to explain to you what you've done, from a female perspective.

You've scared the holy hell out of her. She isn't comfortable with you now, because she doesn't know what is going to happen when she is with you.

But your relationship isn't ruined. A relationship isn't easy, its a two way street, like Hollister said. You can fix this, but both of you have to want to.

And if she isn't willing to give it a go again, you've learned from this experience. You know what to do/not to do with the next girl.

 

[CastawayJ]

awnsering your question all we did was go to one school dance before winter break, so in short, no where

 

[Sparx]

awnsering your question all we did was go to one school dance before winter break, so in short, no where

I mean, what did you do to offend her so bad?

 

[2HOT2touch]

awnsering your question all we did was go to one school dance before winter break, so in short, no where

I'm sorry, but how exactly is that going too fast? unless, you did something at that dance...

 

[Sparkle_Cherry]

I think it depends on what you did. If you took it way too far (and I think we all know what I mean by that) then there might be no reconciling with her. But if you didn't go that far, then there might be hope for you yet CastawayJ.

~C.B.