Good morning!
Pjlla, I have an old copy (1998) of the USA Swimming's Rules and Regulations book. I must have called them directly to get this, but I can't really remember. Anyway, they have a great website---I think it's usaswimming.org---and it has all sorts of info about swimming, even nutrition tips. I understand all about competitive swimming---believe me! Most of what you're daughter's going through, well just let me say we've been there done that. Tell her to keep trying and don't give up. I'm sorry she got DQ'd on a great race. It's heartbreaking to them (and even tougher on us, their greatest cheerleaders!). My DD has had her share of indifferent coaches, but she's also had some great coaches---some we really miss too! She's learned almost everything she knows about nutrition from her swimming days, and it still sticks with her even at 16.
Tell your daughter I said "good luck" and stay with it---over time it will develop her into a very organized and disciplined young lady. My DD is looking over me just now as I'm typing this. She LOVES to swim, and over the last week or so she's started running in order to be in shape to swim laps this summer (for lifeguarding).
Snookhams, I know you are very proud of your son. Keep helping him with his diet, and remember teenagers are going to want their fair share of "junk food". Just try to have some healthy snacks waiting for him in the fridge for the afternoons and weekends. Maybe you can even get him interested in helping prepare one of the recipes from the book. We've tried most of them, and they're all pretty good. I'm sure by now there's lots of nutrition books on the market, but that one's pretty solid on what it teaches.
Sorry, to have such a long post, but swimming's a sport that's near and dear to my heart. It's also a sport in which nutrition really plays a big part, and a great way to teach your children how eating right really makes a difference.
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Vicki