help me!!!

[disney0208]

hey well i have this guy who is well my best friend we did go out for like 6 months but i broke up with him because of a threat well anyways its been a long time and i still love him and he says he loves me???? and to make it worse he lives a hour and a half away now!!!! we were going out when he moved for a while too!!!

 

[valeriesunshine]

Why would you want to be with someone that threatened you? How old are you?

 

[goofyandplutoluver]

Did he threaten you or someone else?

 

[disney0208]

Why would you want to be with someone that threatened you? How old are you?

He didnt threaten me... some friends said that if i dont brake up with him that they will and do it badly!! Im 13...

 

[Tinkerbell424]

He didnt threaten me... some friends said that if i dont brake up with him that they will and do it badly!! Im 13...

You shouldnt let your friends break up with your boyfriend... that's a little weird.

BTW, welcome to the DIS.

 

[disney0208]

You shouldnt let your friends break up with your boyfriend... that's a little weird.

BTW, welcome to the DIS.

I know that now but it wouldve caused so much drama!!!

 

[Tinkerbell424]

I know that now but it wouldve caused so much drama!!!

So they didn't like your boyfriend, and wanted you to break up with him, you didn't want to, so they said if you dont I will?

They cant do that, lol.. Honestly, they don't sound like very nice friends.. :/

 

[disney0208]

So they didn't like your boyfriend, and wanted you to break up with him, you didn't want to, so they said if you dont I will?

They cant do that, lol.. Honestly, they don't sound like very nice friends.. :/

exactly....

 

[VolleyballQt07]

I know exactly what you're going through. My boyfriend and I had the same issue. He asked me out last day of school and broke up with me a week later because our "friend" threatened him. So he broke up with me and regretted it. And after 3 weeks of serious thinking he asked me out again.

So I'd say go for it. But that's just me.

 

[JulielovesDisney]

I'd give it a try again. Just don't let your friends influence your relationship. They aren't good friends if they want you to break up with your boyfriend for no reason.

 

[m-and-m]

you should give it another try. long distance relationships can be difficult, but you never know if it will work untill you try.

 

[disney0208]

I know exactly what you're going through. My boyfriend and I had the same issue. He asked me out last day of school and broke up with me a week later because our "friend" threatened him. So he broke up with me and regretted it. And after 3 weeks of serious thinking he asked me out again.

So I'd say go for it. But that's just me.

well he likes another girl now but idk if he still loves me???

 

[disney0208]

you should give it another try. long distance relationships can be difficult, but you never know if it will work untill you try.

thanks???!!!

 

[♥DizzyDizney♥]

Your friends threaten you &+ your boyfriend?
I say ditch your friends. Get new ones who respect you &+ your boyfriend.
Get back with him.

That's my advice. xD

 

[VolleyballQt07]

well he likes another girl now but idk if he still loves me???

Talk to him then. My boyfriend was juggling 3 girls when I started liking him and I guess I was lucky enough to be the chosen one. haha! But seriously talk to him and ask him.

 

[disney0208]

Your friends threaten you &+ your boyfriend?
I say ditch your friends. Get new ones who respect you &+ your boyfriend.
Get back with him.

That's my advice. xD

i have tried talking to him but hes just a little lets say dumb?? when i say something he doesnt understand that i am trying to see if he loves me???