minkydog
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But without getting too technical. Just looking at the paperwork makes my head hurt.
Am I understanding that they count the student's assets first and the parents' assets second? Do we need to reveal our 401Ks and IRAs? What about our investments, stocks, money market funds?
Here's the thing I'm concerned about. DD is a HS junior, so we'll be doing the FAFSA next January. I want to make sure we do this right--I don't want to declare anything we don't have to, but I sure don't want to lie about anything(I did read the fine print!) My DH has most of his long-term savings in his 401K, which is our primary retirement. We both have IRAs. And I have some investments, but no 401K. I"m afraid they're going to look at us on paper and say "Wow! These people can totally give their kid a free ride!" But here's the back story--we live on SSDI. Our income is at near-poverty level and our kids are on free lunches. Our medical expenses are high due to several of us having chronic illnesses. On paper, we probably look pretty good, but when you look underneath that the situation is not what it would seem.
I don't mind helping my daughter financially, but I don't want her to lose out on need-based financial aid. Our investments, 401ks, and IRAs are set aside for our retirement, plus the upkeep of our mentally handicapped son. I love my daughter dearly, but I cannot deplete those funds to put her through school. She will someday be able to support herself; her brother will not. So whatever we have saved when the time comes has to be able to support THREE people, not just two(ETA: She plans to work through college and get student loans)
Am I understanding that they count the student's assets first and the parents' assets second? Do we need to reveal our 401Ks and IRAs? What about our investments, stocks, money market funds?
Here's the thing I'm concerned about. DD is a HS junior, so we'll be doing the FAFSA next January. I want to make sure we do this right--I don't want to declare anything we don't have to, but I sure don't want to lie about anything(I did read the fine print!) My DH has most of his long-term savings in his 401K, which is our primary retirement. We both have IRAs. And I have some investments, but no 401K. I"m afraid they're going to look at us on paper and say "Wow! These people can totally give their kid a free ride!" But here's the back story--we live on SSDI. Our income is at near-poverty level and our kids are on free lunches. Our medical expenses are high due to several of us having chronic illnesses. On paper, we probably look pretty good, but when you look underneath that the situation is not what it would seem.
I don't mind helping my daughter financially, but I don't want her to lose out on need-based financial aid. Our investments, 401ks, and IRAs are set aside for our retirement, plus the upkeep of our mentally handicapped son. I love my daughter dearly, but I cannot deplete those funds to put her through school. She will someday be able to support herself; her brother will not. So whatever we have saved when the time comes has to be able to support THREE people, not just two(ETA: She plans to work through college and get student loans)