Help Me Please

[?MARTÍN¿]

Girl Troubles








Well, theres this girl at my school. Were very good friends, and we both pretty much know we like each other. The problem is, i am pretty shy. When i finally managed the nerve to ask her out, she said a subtle "No". I really want to go out with her, and need some kind of way to make her want to. if you have any suggestions, please post it.

 

[acesupercoolme]

Well if she said no I think you should just move on instead of spending all your time trying to get her to go out with you when she said she didn't want to.

 

[PigletGurl]

Do something extra special.

That happened to me. I said no.

It was like in 10th grade, so i dont remember much, but he did something for me, and we were in a relationship for a few months. I actually liked him after he told me he liked me.

 

[KidGoofy]

If you guys have a half day at school and you both are going to the same place to eat insist on paying for her food. Do something to show you care. Dont buy her choclates or anything like that now. To me that makes it seem like you guys are in a relationship but do something minor like the food thing.

 

[goofysk8]

If you guys have a half day at school and you both are going to the same place to eat insist on paying for her food. Do something to show you care. Dont buy her choclates or anything like that now. To me that makes it seem like you guys are in a relationship but do something minor like the food thing.

gooood idea yeah, just anything that will be sweet, just don't overdue it.
gooood luck !

 

[ohdisco]

What kind of no was it? Was it a "not right now" or was it just a definite "no"?

I'm a similar situation. It's pretty obvious to everyone around us that we like one another. I got the nerve and told him I liked him and he told me that I had a beautiful personality and I was gorgeous, he just didn't want a girlfriend right now, mostly because he wants to finish his first year of college and he didn't have any money.

 

[♥Ariel♥]

just try getting to know her better. but you cant force someone to like you. and my cusions always tell me if you like someone that much and they like someone else, let him/her have the other person, because chances are it may not be this month or whatever but you two will go out.

 

[goob9954]

I have some girl trouble too. But, just keep hanging out and being nice and it will all pay off in the end. HEY I just gave myself a good idea

 

[?MARTÍN¿]

well, it was more of an "I just want to be friends right now" no