Gina- seeing you are in Vermont- I can offer an American view, if it helps.
I have to agree with the others on a lot of points. Having been to Anaheim since I was a little kid, things are different than stateside.... But it is the most beautiful park. The amount of time and detail put into everything is incredible. One of my favs was the Wonderland Maze, and it is an exclusive to DLRP. They have gone over to Space Mtn Mission 2, and it is absolutely awesome. This park really sparkles in a way all it's own.
We stayed at the Santa Fe the first time, and it was off-peak season. The room was nice- but if you need a comparison on room size, I would say... a little smaller than Motel 6. All rooms here are a bit smaller. But the room was clean, and the beds comfy. The park shuttle runs very regularly and often. It made it easy to take off for awhile during the day for a rest, and head back after a kiddo nap. The hotels each have their own themed restaurant
We have also stayed at the Elysee. The shuttle from there doesn't run as often, but with some planning, it is no big deal. The rooms are a bit bigger-Incl. bathroom, and it has a hair dryer in it. I found the beds to be REALLY hard- but they offer wireless internet for a fee, and your breakfast there is included if you buy it with a Disney package.
I found the prices in the park not so bad. Typical Park food prices- we usually get the half board meal added on (something you can't do at the Elysee, or other off site hotel)- which saves plenty of money on meals, and offers some pretty good dining options, like the Plaza Gardens- which has a wonderful selection for lunches, and lets you eat at some of the hotel restaurants too! The half board ends up running about the same as buying the "Fast Food" each day for every meal, but if you want the option of sit down dining too, I would go with the half board. As for prices on swag- it is actually really a good price, I found. Sweatshirts for $30-$40, T-shirts as low as $-8 to $10. Depends on what kind of swag you are looking to take home.
Just be sure when planning your budget to include an extra 30% in prices listed- because frankly, the dollar $uck$ against the Euro, and it can be a bit of a shock when it comes out of the account if you aren't expecting how much an extra .30 or .32 on the dollar can add up to.
All of the employees I spoke to not only spoke english, but we very friendly and helpful... (In fact, we made it into Paris, and everyone we met there was super nice, too.) I think you'll love it and have the time of your life. Just make sure you look into the deals and such before you finalize any money- as you can save a bundle with careful planning.