First you gotta decide on the type of room you want. With six of you (I assume DH,DW & 4 kids) you will want two rooms. If you feel like you need a veranda, you could book 2 rooms accross the hall form each other (save some $). You can save a LOT of money by getting two inside rooms (They are not terrible, we've stayed in them several times). The cat 8 & 9 rooms have portholes and are a litte more expensive than the inside rooms. On deck 5 there are 6 cat 10 (inside) rooms that have partially obstructed portholes. We refer to these as the Secret Port Hole rooms (SPH). The biggest problem with these are that they are not so secret anymore, they get booked quickly because they are a really good deal.
Whats not to be missed? Dinners, they are terrific!! The shows are fabulous. The kids usually love the club, lab and common grounds (age based). THe adults love the "Adult Education Series" - the Art of Entertainment (about the shows and performers), the Navigator Series (about the making and operations of the Magic) and the Art of Entertaining (about cooking, napkin folding, drink mixing, ice carving, table decorating etc). There is also the wine tasting that takes place around the ship (extra cost, adults only).
For us brunch at Palo on sea days is a not to be missed meal. The food is varied, plentiful and excellent. Oh yea, the service is great. And don't miss the lemon merangue pie for dessert at brunch - it's like no other!!
The cabarette shows and the game shows that are scattered throughout the evening are always a lot of fun.
St. Maarten is great for a beach day. The snorkelling can be iffy there because the wind kicks up the sand and makes visibility poor. Go to a beach on your own (cabs are waiting at the pier) - its a lot cheaper than
DCL beach excursions and you are on your own schedule. Go somewhere other than Great Bay (where the Magic parks). A fun excursion here is the Golden Eagle Catamaran. Its a day of sailing, snokeling and beach party (a 3 in 1 trip).
On St Thomas, do an excursion to St. John's because they snorkeling there is terrific. I don't think you can go wrong there.
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