Hi everyone! My DH, DS(2), my mom, and myself will be taking our first family Disney trip next January (first time DH & I have gone together and first time for DS). I am about to go crazy figuring out which resort might work best for us! We will either do AoA suite or rent 2 rooms at other resorts. Can you guys give me some advice? It would be so appreciated!!

Here are my biggest concerns:
***We'd prefer a quieter resort. While DS would probably love to see the construction at some resorts, I worry about the noise during the day (we will likely need to come back to room midday for nap).
**Transportation. I know to expect to spend a fair amount of time for transportation between resort and parks. However, is there a resort that tends to have quicker transportation (especially to Magic)?
**Pool will not be a concern for us this time, but I am interested in a resort playground for DS to have some quieter play time during our less-busy days.
**Are the beds at a Moderate more comfortable (aside from the size difference)?
Thank you guys so much for any feedback!
I have stayed at AoA in a Lion King family suite, and really enjoyed it. It was a girls trip, my mom, my DD and me. The pull out couch was quite comfortable, my mom slept on it without any problems. DD slept on the pull down, she is a adult and fit fine... With a 2.5 year old I'm not sure how this would work, I would bring his pack and play or a blow up mattress. In the bedroom the bed is a queen size, which was fine for just me... But we would not have been able to go this route if DH was with us. He is 6'4" and I am 5'8". Having 2 bathrooms, and some space was great, and the little kitchenette was nice for drinks and such.
POR is what we consider our home resort. We love it here we prefer the bayou rooms but have stayed in the magnolia sections and enjoy it to, In January of this year, we took DD, DGS, Sil, DH and Me to celebrate DGS 2 birthday, DH and I got a King bed, and DD's family went with the 2 beds which were queens, and we got lucky and got rooms next to each other with the door so we could go between. I did request the section and the rooms with the door in between. I feel that the Bayou rooms are quieter.
POFQ - is the smallest resort, and we have stayed here several times as well. One of thing we like is being able to walk to the other resort (POR) about a10 minute walk or less depending on where your room is, so its give you 2 food courts which is nice, both have a boat to Disney Springs which is nice for getting down there for the evening.
CBR - welcome to the islands, our DD's loved staying here when they were school aged, the pool is like a old fort, and the kiddie pool area is like a pirate ship... So cute... We find that at times the rates are a bit lower here, and I believe there is some type of construction going on.
All of the resorts have some type of play ground area.
As far a transportation, my DGS thought riding the bus was fun... We really don't worry about riding the bus around. give yourself at least a hour or so if you have breakfast ADR's some where.
Also just so you know you can't go from resort to resort on the buses. So say if you have Breakfast ADR's for Chef Mickeys, take a bus to MK, and they use the monorail for the resort to get off at CR. Or you can use Uber if you want which we have done to get there, I know the new Minnie Lyft vans are in action, but not sure when they will be at all the resorts. Then once your done you can use the monorail to get to Epcot or MK or grab a bus to another park.
Enjoy your first trip, seeing it through your little guys eyes is amazing... I spent most of our trip watching him, watching and pointing to everything, and saying all the character names, I will say at the meet and greet, he was a bit shy with some and others not...
I will make a suggestion Do the Disney junior character breakfast at DHS... the character interaction was so amazing, and our DGS knew all the characters, he was so excited to meet Jake, it was just wonderful...