It was supposed to be help but I was frantically typing because of the limited time to fix this and my frustration of not being able to find an answer on ebay. which I finally did...
to other person who asked , it was a small used item and only 1 other bidder but I do not know how those things work when someone bids right before auction is over and makes it so you can not bid back. happens to me all the time. NO ONE would bid 1000.00 for this item probably not even 20.00 but who knows!!!! I am not the luckiest person in this world so if there was a rare exception it would be me...they could write me up in the annals of stupid Ebay bids...and I would be famous.