gigi1313 said:
some things are just common courtesy/common sense/common safety (something my children are filled with -- must get it from their father

) and others that potentially infringe on the right of others... what brand of sneakers my kid wears does not infringe on others... ergo, big difference...
also, i *could* just say "no you may not wear them" and will and do (i.e. camp... it's just not safe to climb a rock wall wearing Heelys!) but this is something i am not going to enforce if it's just a disboard "rule"
I absolutely understand what you're saying. I'm sure, judging by the way you feel about your child to be able to wear Heelys if he wants as long as there is no specific rule not to, that he has lots of experience and knows how to use them responsibly. I agree that if there is no "set in stone" rule, then you're child has every right to wear them if you feel like he is responsible enough to use them properly.
But I think if I was in that situation, I would be afraid of "starting something". Maybe someone else thought their children could not use them in the parks, then they saw my children doing it, and decided it must be ok. What happens if their kids are little terrors when they get on these things? Their being able to wear them could seriously infringe on people (ie. running into people or over people). I know, I know, it's not up to you to control what other people do. But, not to be mean, but there are a lot of rude people that go to the Disney parks, we all know this!! I would rather set a good example for those kind of people, so that maybe their rudeness will be curbed a bit, and everyone can have a better time. Once again, I know that nothing can give you control over what others do, but I do think that a lot of people do things just because they see others do it. I don't want to be responsible for doing something that others will repeat, if it is something that will make others uncomfortable. But maybe that's just my Southern upbringin'......that's just the way we're taught to look at things I guess.
So bottom line, since your kid is a very responsible child, and knows his using Heely's will not infringe on others, he has every right to use them unless Disney tells you not to. But for others whose children are less experienced.....please weigh your decision carefully before you give your children a yes to Heely's.
EDIT: And just for the record, I totally agree with the fact that kids that wear Heelys, or kids that skateboard, etc, are definitely not hellions. My hubby and I used to have a skate shop inside our sports store, and we got complaints all the time about the skaters practicing outside the shop - other patrons said they were "bad kids", and wanted us to make them stop practicing in the parking lot. No they weren't bad kids....they didn't even know the kids, but were judging them anyway, based on how they dressed, and their choice of recreation. No way were we telling those kids to leave, they we wonderful kids!! So I get what you're saying about that.