We invested in APs for the family, activating them on our 7-day vacation in July. So far I have been back to WDW every month since, and twice in August. November trip starts tomorrow when DW and I head down for a few days. We live in NC and have about a 9 hour drive, which we don't love but is far from unmanageable.
Anyhow, being a Passholder has radically changed my park touring style after 16 years of
Disney vacations. Formerly I would always shop for packages, staying on site and often springing for the dining plan if it wasn't being offered for free. We pretty much stuck with one park per day, often not even taking an afternoon break. I always used Disney transportation to get from resort to park. We drive to the parks now, and take breaks too. We stop for lots of Photopass opportunities now since that is included with the AP. We never used them before.
Over the last several months I have enjoyed staying at a couple of off site motels. Surprisingly decent accommodations for around $45 per night. I now hop to different parks pretty regularly, especially if I run into a big crowd and long queues somewhere. We take WDW as it comes to us, not caring if we miss out on an attraction. Not that I do a lot of ADRs, but so far I have been able to get everything I want, including BOG for Monday. I just found that one today. I notice that I am a whole lot less stressed while on Disney trips now, and feel as much a part of the magic as ever even though I'm staying off site.
Maybe best of all is that I can go to WDW cheaper than I can make a quick trip to the mountains or beach. $100-$120 in gas, plus ~$50 per night for a room, plus food. Yeah, having APs has ruined me... but in a good way.
I guess what am discovering is that there are a lot of great ways and "right" ways to tour the parks, and it is a delight to be living out a new way.