Have you ever felt like this

[LOVEDISNEYLAND]

Have you ever had a day where all you felt like doing is crying? Well.. today must be my day. I, all the sudden started to think about stuff (family issues) and started to cry. I just can't help but think about the way things should have turned out. Everything is going good for me and my husband and with his family. It's just my side of the family. It just amazes me when one person comes into the picture how everything can change for the worst. I'm usually a pretty happy person but, not today Hopefully everyone else is having a better day

 

[LaraK]

Sorry you're having such a bad day.

 

[nhpooh]

Have you ever had a day where all you felt like doing is crying? Well.. today must be my day. I, all the sudden started to think about stuff (family issues) and started to cry. I just can't help but think about the way things should have turned out. Everything is going good for me and my husband and with his family. It's just my side of the family. It just amazes me when one person comes into the picture how everything can change for the worst. I'm usually a pretty happy person but, not today Hopefully everyone else is having a better day

 

[C.Ann]

I've had many of those days - since about the 3rd week in August - and I can't really put my finger on "why".. It's very frustrating - it's very embarrassing - and I'm at a loss as to how to handle it..

So - yes - I know how you're feeling.. Hang in there the best you can.. That's what I'm doing..

 

[doxdogy]

Yup, I feel like that today. I hope you feel better soon.

 

[EpcotBeauty]

Just concentrate on YOUR family (you, Dh and kids if you have any). Choose to be happy and do away with all toxic relations, it has worked wonders for me!

Good luck and sorry you are hurting.

 

[rentayenta]

I have had tons of those days.

 

[minniecarousel]

Yes, Missy, we all have days like that. Maybe it helps to know that you're not alone. That doesn't diminish your pain any, because it's real and it's happening.

Tomorrow will be better!

Hang in there.

 

[LOVEDISNEYLAND]

Just concentrate on YOUR family (you, Dh and kids if you have any). Choose to be happy and do away with all toxic relations, it has worked wonders for me!

Good luck and sorry you are hurting.

It's also the guilt that I hate. The guilt I have when I make a choice not to deal with those toxic relationships because I look like the "bad one" even though DH tells me I'm not and I did all I can do. It just HURTS so bad sometimes. Holidays are coming up and so that's one more thing I'll have to take into consideration.

 

[WebmasterMaryJo]

Sometimes those 'could'ves' and 'should'ves' can be overwhelming.

 

[chager]

I have been like that for 3 weeks now! However my son is ill and the Dr's can't find a reason. I know I am exhausted and frustrated. I just keep pushing on. I have many other things going on, but I have to concentrate on my immediate family. If I start thinking about all the other stuff I would go crazy!
Oh yeah, chocolate ice cream always helps!

 

[Serena]

I've had many of those days. Thankfully not so many in the last few years. Just hang in there, I know how overwhelming that is, but look for anything to help you feel better and concentrate on that if you can.

 

[rie'smom]

Have you ever had a day where all you felt like doing is crying? Well.. today must be my day. I, all the sudden started to think about stuff (family issues) and started to cry. I just can't help but think about the way things should have turned out. Everything is going good for me and my husband and with his family. It's just my side of the family. It just amazes me when one person comes into the picture how everything can change for the worst. I'm usually a pretty happy person but, not today Hopefully everyone else is having a better day

Yup, I've had those days and a few recently and for the same reason that you state-my family. What helps me is to get out of the house-even going to Wal Mart helps. I can regroup and get on with my day. It's hard as heck to make myself get up and get dressed but it's worth it. When I stay in the house, the walls seem to close in on me. I hope you feel better tomorrow.

 

[SHAYMARAYSMOM]

Have you ever had a day where all you felt like doing is crying? Well.. today must be my day. I, all the sudden started to think about stuff (family issues) and started to cry. I just can't help but think about the way things should have turned out. Everything is going good for me and my husband and with his family. It's just my side of the family. It just amazes me when one person comes into the picture how everything can change for the worst. I'm usually a pretty happy person but, not today Hopefully everyone else is having a better day

Sorry you are having a bad day.
But one thing you may want to do is just try not to let this person get to you. yes it is easy said than done. But having someone in my family that is a train wreck I have learned.

 

[dislal]

Hopefully tomorrow will be a better day.

 

[4nana]

I think we've all probably been there at least once in some form or fashion . Sending you lots of pixie dust that your black cloud has a sliver lining apparent soon. Keep the faith sweetie ^i^

 

[scrump]

I'm sorry you're going through this. I know what it's like, and I hope it gets better soon.

 

[Cindy F]

Have you thought about seeing a counselor? Sometimes it helps to just talk through things with someone who can be objective and help you work things out. We're not scary people, I promise!!