The whole point is that you can't really control it. You may feel more in control and in fact - loss of control is the main reason people are afraid of flying.If a car is coming at me....I side step it...I control it...where is the illusion..do you think everything is "pre-planned" I do not, sorry
From your argument - that must mean you are never a passenger in a car either.
If someone wanted to crash into you in your car, there would be nothing to stop them from doing it. Same way if someone really wants to take down a plane, they can, period end of story. It may take some time, they may have to have others help them, but if they want to do it bad enough, they can.
I just wont admit which part 