JoshuaShaw
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Speaking for myself...This the issue I have as well-
It seems to be that if you still see all the details you think are important and Disney is still a magical place for you then you're just settling for less or you're a Disney apologist. Not true.
For me, the parks are as clean as they've ever been as are the bathrooms. We love the changes at the MK and can't wait to see all the new things coming. The resorts are not in disrepair, in fact they're better every time we go. FP+ has improved our trips many times over. We didn't just adjust to it, it's been amazing how much better our trips worked with it. The things that make my trip magical and make me want to return are there- they've never left.
I understand for others, Disney just doesn't have it anymore. ....for whatever reason. What I don't understand, and have never gotten an answer that makes sense is this: If the bathrooms are filthy, you think Disney is run down, doesn't care, is only after your money, is too expensive, FP+ horrible, CM's are rude and on and on and on...why do you return? I would never go to a place that I felt that way about- no matter how much I used to like it.
I still love Disney World. I've never met an overtly rude CM, walked into an unkempt bathroom, cut myself on broken glass, missed towel animals, or any other number of the myriad of complaints that get dismissed daily. What I do take issue with is people outright dismissing anyone's experience or criticism because they haven't witnessed it first-hand.
I've never had an overtly bad experience at Disney, but I'm also capable of recognizing that everyone's experience is different. To shrug off all criticism in an effort to dismiss the ones that may be hyperbolic is counter-productive. Sure, there are people on here who complain for the same of complaining. That doesn't mean every single time someone has a bad experience with Disney they're just being rabble-rousers. And yet, without fail, there are always people who come charging into every thread white-knighting for Disney, as if an attack on Disney is an attack on their very being. That's why so many of these threads devolve into the same line-drawn-in-the-sand battles: someone comes to the board to vent with seemingly like-minded individuals and is immediately met with a condescending answer like "make your own magic" or "just be grateful you don't have cancer."
You dont have to agree with someone to be empathetic to their situation.