We are a family of 4 (myself, DH, DD8, and DS4) going on our first family cruise. We will be celebrating our 10th wedding anniversary with this cruise next summer...July 9, 2005 West Coast Cruise. Would like some advice from the experts about having a table for just the 4 of us vs. sitting with other families or couples. I'm trying NOT to micromanage every aspect of this cruise...but I'm an obsessive planner and find it hard not to want to control everything!
Do you think I should make a request...and if so, what should I request? Or do you think I should just wait and see what happens (so NOT in my nature!)?

