We have driven ever since DD was 18 months old. Flying with the 2 kids was actually so much stress.
Driving gives us the ability to leave when we want. It takes us about 17 hours.
That is driving straight through. (we stopped the first time....then figured out we didn't need to waste the time stopping)
We leave about 5-7pm on friday night.... stop in DE at Craker Barrel for dinner....and ALWAYS stop in Fredericksburg, VA at the WaWa, south of the border, and the same rest stop in GA.
We make other stops...but those have repeated each year...without actually planning.
I work nights....so I stay up as long as I can when I get done Thursday night....pack the car, pack a cooler (we have lunch meat for 'breakfast' the next morning) and then sleep until the kids get home from school.
It works for us...and since 2001....our cost of driving has been $325-410 each time.
That is for gas (has been $2-3.75/gal),tolls (we have 3 I believe...maybe$10 each way) snacks, one sit down meal each way, and an oil change when we get home.
I don't count the cost of the cooler items...cause if we weren't going...I would still be buying stuff for us at home.
As for kids activities.... we have printed out games and puzzles, iPods, gameboys, crafty items like pipe cleaners, friendship bracelets, shape magnets and a cookie sheet. (a cookie sheet is a GREAT travel companion~ works as a tray for eating...to color on, etc.)
a word of caution I tell everyone.... CRAYONS WILL MELT IN THE CAR IN THE FL HEAT.
