We just used the handicap viewing area tonight at MK and I'm wondering if our experience tonight was a typical one. Our party of 6 had 2 ECVs and 1 wheelchair. We have used it twice before and loved how well managed it always was. Previously, we got there early and were in the front row. The CMs usually had the family to sit if in the front row and watched out for the back rows to provide for as clear as possible viewing for those who are seated in the back rows. Yes, it is impossible for everyone to see everything but they usually do a great job at keeping order and being fair.
The rules have always been simple and fair: 1) they allow up to 5 people per mobility device but they have to stay behind the device to allow viewing for the guest needing the service, 2) you can come and go as needed but one person has to stay there to hold your spot, and 3) the CMs usually monitor the standing guests in front and often tell them to be seated so the back rows of seated guests can see.
Tonight was different. A couple was in the very front row on that small fence wall in the front holding their spot. We were seated in the second row behind them. They didn't have a wheelchair or scooter but we assumed someone would come later with it or they had DAS. Not a big deal. Holding spots happens all the time.
About 10 minutes before the castle show started, 6-7 adults joined the party but no one had a mobility device. They stood the whole time, directly in front of us. This was different than a family standing behind mobility devices. It was a wall of adults. We could only see the spires of the castle and higher. (By the end of the day, standing for the show was not an option for the 3 of us although we tried for awhile.) Nobody told them to sit down or approach them. We decided not to say anything because at the beginning of show, one of them proposed to another. I didn't want to mess up their moment but we were celebrating, too. Our beloved DIL just finished intensive chemo and had a negative CT scan, so we were specifically there to watch her favorite show with her to celebrate that she was going to live. (She required the wheelchair for lack of stamina; DH and I use our own ECVs for physical limitations.)
I'm not being a Karen here. If I was I would have spoken up at the show and been a jerk. (Seriously, I had plenty of time and reason to speak up but I didn't want to mess up their moment.) I'm just wondering if this is typical. If so, we will be more diligent from now on to arrive very early to get the front row.
What are your experiences with the special viewing area? Any tips other than arrive very early to get in front? Am I missing something?
The rules have always been simple and fair: 1) they allow up to 5 people per mobility device but they have to stay behind the device to allow viewing for the guest needing the service, 2) you can come and go as needed but one person has to stay there to hold your spot, and 3) the CMs usually monitor the standing guests in front and often tell them to be seated so the back rows of seated guests can see.
Tonight was different. A couple was in the very front row on that small fence wall in the front holding their spot. We were seated in the second row behind them. They didn't have a wheelchair or scooter but we assumed someone would come later with it or they had DAS. Not a big deal. Holding spots happens all the time.
About 10 minutes before the castle show started, 6-7 adults joined the party but no one had a mobility device. They stood the whole time, directly in front of us. This was different than a family standing behind mobility devices. It was a wall of adults. We could only see the spires of the castle and higher. (By the end of the day, standing for the show was not an option for the 3 of us although we tried for awhile.) Nobody told them to sit down or approach them. We decided not to say anything because at the beginning of show, one of them proposed to another. I didn't want to mess up their moment but we were celebrating, too. Our beloved DIL just finished intensive chemo and had a negative CT scan, so we were specifically there to watch her favorite show with her to celebrate that she was going to live. (She required the wheelchair for lack of stamina; DH and I use our own ECVs for physical limitations.)
I'm not being a Karen here. If I was I would have spoken up at the show and been a jerk. (Seriously, I had plenty of time and reason to speak up but I didn't want to mess up their moment.) I'm just wondering if this is typical. If so, we will be more diligent from now on to arrive very early to get the front row.
What are your experiences with the special viewing area? Any tips other than arrive very early to get in front? Am I missing something?