Hi everyone. First of all thank you all so much for your good thoughts! I left after I posted, and I just got home now and was so happy/touched to see all these replies.
Well, Micky is not having horrible pain anymore, (ahhh, morphine), but tomorrow morning at 11 he is having a cystoscopy where hopefully the doctor can grab the stone and get it out that way, otherwise we have to reschedule for a lithotripsy. I'm kind of nervous because they numb the lower half of his body and it lasts a few hours, and then they put him in a twilight sleep. The shot goes in his spine!!

He had a choice between this and general anesthesia, but he doesn't like the idea of a breathing tube and all that , so he chose this.
The doctor is hoping that he'll pass the stone on his own during the night, but he hasn't so far, soooo........looks like it will be the procedure. Micky says it's weird, because all of a sudden, he doesn't hurt at all. (he was hurting before, even with the morphine)
Okay, well I'm hanging out here by myself tonight, and the dogs and cat have taken full advantage. I came home to everything and anything dropped all over the floor!
thanks again, and still think good thoughts please, we aren't done yet!!
andrea