Guys only!

[SoccerTink]

Okey, i was just curious but what do you and all other gouys find the most important about a girl? Just say what you think and don't worry, i won't comment on what you guys say. The thing is that I like this boy in my class and i don't know if he liked me but i wanted to know what most guys are looking for in a girl.

PLease post!

 

[Sparx]

I'm far from a guy, but I can tell you waht my boyfriend told me when we first got together (several months ago)

Guys like smart girls. The whole "imma dumb blonde" doesn't appeal much.

Guys are visual beings. They do like pretty girls, but all guys have a different opinion on pretty, and even if you think you're not, he probably does.

Guys don't want the meek little kitten. Be humble, but be proud and confident.

Talk to him first, and get to know what he likes, and if thats you, push harder.

Don't think hes just after sex. They're not. Sure, some men are pigs, but a good deal of them aren't.

Be confident and go for it.

 

[Babyjustrun]

As she said, far from a guy.

Humor. Your friends probably wouldn't be your friends if you didn't make them laugh, because no laughter makes for a boring time. Guys want a girlfriend they can have fun with, you know say nonsense and just have a pointless conversation about pencils. Sure in a relationship you want good conversation, but heck, bad reckless and crazy conversations are good too.

 

[Princess Ash]

This isn't from a guys point of view...nor from a girl TRYING to be a guy.

This is just what works for me often to break the ice.

Tease them. I mean with words and nicely. Flirty and fun, not hurtful. But just enough to be like "haha, did you seriously just ***insert action here***" then add "I'm just kidding" for some reason guys love that! I don't know WHAT it is? I think it's witty banter because it shows a guy that u can challenge him and actually have a brain. But you gotta be careful...it's not something u can do all the time or it gets old and tiring.

Aside from that...

Be confident and be yourself.
Sounds lame and cliche, but it's true. And it's also a lot HARDER not to get all nervous or act strange around the person you like...I KNOW. Hence the earlier advice BEFORE the whole true confident be yourself advice.

Good luck!

 

[Dinosaur33]

I look for someone who talks to me a lot, always asks me how I'm doing, and most importantly someone with a good personality.

 

[DDRManiac]

This isn't from a guys point of view...nor from a girl TRYING to be a guy.

This is just what works for me often to break the ice.

Tease them. I mean with words and nicely. Flirty and fun, not hurtful. But just enough to be like "haha, did you seriously just ***insert action here***" then add "I'm just kidding" for some reason guys love that! I don't know WHAT it is? I think it's witty banter because it shows a guy that u can challenge him and actually have a brain. But you gotta be careful...it's not something u can do all the time or it gets old and tiring.

wow your good, im a guy and i actually do think that attracts me to some girls, thats scary, you guys use it as a tactic!

 

[BellHop]

MAN I WISH MY BRAIN COULD JUST WHIPE THINGS OUT LIKE THAT!!! dudes acctually dudets what are ur names where u from i think i could be friends with a lot of you acctually ALL OF U!!! lol bammgmrg@swbell.net e-mail it!

 

[SoccerTink]

wow! lol
Got it! I'll try to me myself and do all of the above! I hope it works out!

 

[Lil_Tink]

I am not a guy but I think when anyone says looks dont matter their full of it. Looks dont have to be 100% but honestly I dont think anyone can say they dont unless their blind. Sorry if that sounded really harsh but its true.

For me its about 50/50 idk about guys. Maybe more, maybe less

 

[JackSparrow0791]

It completely depends on his point of view, if hes like me i look for someone whos nice and smart and pretty, but people definition of pretty is always different, the most important thing is to jsut be urself

 

[SoccerTink]

alright, cool

 

[SoccerTink]

i guess that;s all that needs to be said. bye!