guy problems

[pansQT]

okay, i've liked this guy for like, 2 years, and for the second time since then, he's really shown sings of liking me back. I mean like really showing signs. So, we've been flirtin' and stuff, ya know, but he's been talking about this one girl who's suppose 2 b sooooooo hot, but homeshcooled. Is he bein' serious, or is he just tryin' 2 make me jelouse do u think? help! i'm hurtin!

 

[petey's sweetie]

well he is obviously is trying 2 make U jelous! Ask 1 of Ure freinds 2 ask him if he likes U.

 

[pansQT]

yeah, i was thinkin' he was just tryin' 2 make me jelouse, bcause, he always makes it a point to talk about how hot she is when i'm around.

 

[petey's sweetie]

he likes u and hes just trying 2 make u feel like he doesnt! Do the same 2 him

 

[pansQT]

that's wat ive been doin! whenever he brings up this hottie, i bring up how hot jeremy is! which he is, by the way.

 

[petey's sweetie]

I ssssssssssssssssooooooooooooooooooooooo agree! Tell him how U really feel.

 

[pansQT]

I kinda already told him, and he told me that he liked me too, kinda. I dunno how 2 xplain it! it's confusing!

 

[disneymaniacgirl]

just dont be like all giddy and stuff you gotta play hard to get that always works for me...... i got my own problems too...... ok there is these 2 guys that i really really like and they like me and they both asked me out i dont know what one im gin to say yes to but they go to 2 different schools and the one is such a smooth talker and the other is really nice but i dont know which to like... theyre both younger than me but that doesnt matter someone please HELP!!!

 

[pansQT]

and i thought mi problem wuz bad. sry, hun. i'd choose the smooth talker. or whichever's hotter.

 

[pansQT]

 

[TinkerBellPixie4GOAL]

or whichever's hotter.

Shallow much?

So you like them and they like you---I'm sorry, this is just hard for me to comprehend...is it possible you just like them as friends? I always found it hard to like two people at the same time. But if you must choose I say go with the one you're most comfortable with, the one who's ok with you just being yourself and not trying to change you or anything...

I have my own problems as well....there's a guy I like who already told me he doesn't feel the same way, but we've become great friends, and I'm starting to like him as more than just friends again, but I have another friend who likes him now...she already knows how I feel and she and I have great conversations, but its not as though I can tell him how I feel again because now there's a friendship on the line.

 

[petey's sweetie]

Oh I am so sry 4 all U guy problemed people!

 

[Badger Princess]

i've been having the same problem, almost identical, but what i did was sucked it up and talked to him about what he thought about us. i think u should talk to him and ask him if he likes u and if he wants to go out. what i learned is that the most he can do is say no. and maybe u can become friends and maybe latter on become more.

***Lauren***

my friends call me CRAZY
but u can call me CUTE

 

[EPCOTgrl1]

REMEMBER boys are stupid. It is always going to be that way! there is no way to fix it....

NO honestly if he is draging you on like this then let him go... there are alot of better guys out there.

 

[petey's sweetie]

Ther is more than 1 in the sea!

 

[pansQT]

yea, well, now they're goin out, but my sis said she was totally ugly! i think he's just trying to get 2 me, but i'm tryin 2 b nice about it. the only prob is, i'm not allowed 2 go out w/ nebody till i'm 16! how m i gonna keep flirting 4 2 years??????????????

 

[StitchGirl88]

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[TinkerBellPixie4GOAL]

you may want to ask yourself that question. You shouldn't have people who you only really know online telling you which person you should like--its your life...you should like who you want. If you like the first dude than go for it...but if its just an old crush coming back to haunt you than go for the latter one...but you have to figure this one out on your own.

 

[sarahtweety]

Hey everyone!! yeah no one knows me in here.. i'm new.. but i got some comits if your looking for advice...


pansQT--- If you told him and he said he liked you then he does... but if hes not pursuing you and making you feel like the most wonderful girl ever then hes probally not that into you.. and you don't want a guy like that!!! you want a guy that likes you for you and can decide already!! i mean hes a man.... just tell him agin that you like him and if he doesn't do anything then be straight with him... say you need to know if your the girl on the top of his list!... you can't waste your time waiting for him!! ....and then let him go... hes causing you to much heart ache to think about ... i'm sure there another guy that wouldn't do that!!

disneymaniacgirl --- liking 2 guys... hmmm.. touiphy... but i think i would chose the one that brings out your personality more... you mostly feel confortable with and can talk to more so than with the other guy... i mean it would probally be a much better realtionship than just foucusing just the physical aspect... beleive me!

Sarah Mouse

 

[PixieDust88]

pansQT:I honestly think he's just trying to make ya jelouse to see how you'd react.

disneymaniacgirl: I'd go with the nice one but that is a hard situation cuz you like both and wouldn't want to hurt them so its really up to you. Which ever you like better and fits your personallity would be the better on to go with.