Grr. Need...to...tell....him...

[Cassidy]

I need to tell him. Badly.

 

[DramaQueen]

I need to tell him. Badly.

if it's bugging you that much DO IT!

I let my crush on a guy torture me for months!!
I really felt MUCH better once it was out in the open.

 

[BabyPiglet]

I'll tell you from expirience Cassidy, there is nothing more freeing than telling someone you like them. Even if they turn you down and break your heart, once you tell them, you are FREE.
Free from the constant, haunting thoughts about them, free from your obsession, free from waiting, free from thinking "what if"

I went through that a couple of years ago, I was OBSESSED with this guy, totally thought I was in love with him. He was constantly invading my brain, I would go out of my way to see him, I'd take the BUS HOME when I didn't even need to just to see him.
When I finally told him I liked him, he said he didn't feel the same (in a very nice way mind you) and it broke my heart, and I cried, and I was sad for a couple of weeks, but then it was OVER. I could stop thinking "what if" and go on with my life.

So honestly honey, you just need to let him know (and TRUST ME, I know how scary it is!!!) but who knows, maybe you'll get lucky and he'll feel the same way.

pls feel free to mesage me if you need any advice or anything like that!!
I truly hope everything works out for you.
(and sorry for the tremendously long response!)

I know exactly how that feels! I thought I was in love, and it tortured me for months. I never actually told him, but I realized I wasn't actually in love. Just that deep deep crush.

 

[Rockstar mentality]

Crushes are ment to ummm... crush you as per the name crush

 

[chisnpeke]

You NEED to tell him. It will torture you. I know it's hard but you just need to spit it out. You aren't dating him now and if he says no you won't be dating him then, so you aren't losing anything and at least he will know how you feel. If he says no, give him time to think it over. And if nothing comes out of it, you will at least be happy that you did tell him how you felt instead of wondering about the "what ifs".

 

[Cassidy]

I told him.
He was a jerk.
Im over him.
2 years I'll never get back.

 

[crazytp93]

I told him.
He was a jerk.
Im over him.
2 years I'll never get back.

What did he say?

 

[Cassidy]

I said...
" Hey Reid...umm, I know this might be a little weird..But..i think i like you"
Then he said..
"Well too bad, i dont like you!"

 

[crazytp93]

I said...
" Hey Reid...umm, I know this might be a little weird..But..i think i like you"
Then he said..
"Well too bad, i dont like you!"

Wow. That wasn't very nice.

I'm Sorry...

 

[Hollywoodhaha]

Kids are so cruel.

I am 14 and a freshman in high school and to me, middle school was the worst three years of my life.

High School is better to me. BUT, College is the BEST you will EVER have.

 

[Cassidy]

2 words.

Boys suck.

 

[Sparx]

I said...
" Hey Reid...umm, I know this might be a little weird..But..i think i like you"
Then he said..
"Well too bad, i dont like you!"

I'm sorry.

Tyler and I went through this a bit back. I still had feelings for him, but he'd moved on. But once I told him, I was done with overanalyzing the time we spent together. I felt so much better. And I've since moved on and have my eyes on another guy. (He's actually my date to this formal affair that I'm doing the photos for. )

Don't let this get you down though. Like you said, you're only twelve. I hadn't even had my first kiss by the time I was twelve. You've got years and years to date and have fun. Rejection is just the other side of that.

The way I like to think about it:
There is one person that I'm supposed to be with. But I can't be with that person if I'm with someone else, so every rejection, every breakup is just one step closer to finding my person. Its hard, but its true.



pm me if you need to talk, hon.

 

[OneTreeHill]

I said...
" Hey Reid...umm, I know this might be a little weird..But..i think i like you"
Then he said..
"Well too bad, i dont like you!"

Oh, that's terrible, and cruel.
I am so sorry that that happened to you.
Don't let it get to you.
Atleast your only 12. You have so many years ahead of you for dating and things like that. If he is going to be like that, then it was probably better that you didn't go out with him.
I am so sorry.
Let me know if you wanna talk.

 

[Lizbon]

I saw an icon one time and it said "One day someone will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else."

It's like Shelby said, rejection is a part of dating.

In my opinion, you can't really be in love with someone when you hardly ever talk to them. Yet I belive in love at first sight. It kind of doesn't make sense but its the way I think.

Your only 12. Don't be in such a rush to find a boyfriend.

 

[dancergirlsasha]

Boys are so confusing. You think they like you, but you can never be sure.

 

[Rockstar mentality]

I said...
" Hey Reid...umm, I know this might be a little weird..But..i think i like you"
Then he said..
"Well too bad, i dont like you!"

please dont let that bother you. i will accualy admit grls mature faster then boys here. At that age i did somthing like that to a grl also. He didnt realize what that could do to someone. To this day thats one of things i regret doing soo much. Hopefully one day he will to and realize how bad that accualy was. So i guess what im trying to say is he didnt know better just brush yourself off and look to the bright things in life.