Grocery Coupon Train

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Just an idea regarding birthday envies -- if you wanted could you purchase an extra copy of a newspaper for the specific purpose of doing a birthday envie? That way your sendee would still get the coupons from your original newspaper. You would be purchasing an extra set of coupons as a birthday gift. My thinking is that some weeks the coupon flyers are huge. If I saw it was one of those weeks, I might pick up an extra copy of the paper for a birthday envie. On a day like today I wouldn't bother -- the coupons stink this week. Anyway, just my two cents. I really like the idea of the birthday envies. (Of course, I work in a school where we've taken away birthday treats from 6 year olds, so I'm kind of into protecting the right to a birthday celebration, LOL!) Either way, I love this coupon train and I thank you, Corinna, for all that you do to organize it!
 
HHartill, two envies going out tomorrow. Not as exciting as in weeks past, though. What a blah week for coupons!
 
Tngramma~I'm sorry to hear things have been difficult lately. Know that you have many friends here, and we are thinking of you during these times. :hug:
 
I have to put my 2 cents worth in and say I completely agree with Corinna. It is nice to get from different people but we surely do not want to short the person we are responsible for on the train.
This is an important fact, each of us on the train are responsible for someone, and because of the multiple envies going out to multiple people from only 1 person, we are letting our main responsibility go, imo.

I also am glad about going back to the 'basics' of the train. As someone who never sent out to anyone but my sender, I know they made out well. I'm excited to see how this works out.....:wizard:
I think it is for the best, and if you keep sending the coupons down the line, I think it will all even out eventually..meaning we will get our wishlist items at times and multiple copouns for items we use frequently. :thumbsup2

Just an idea regarding birthday envies -- if you wanted could you purchase an extra copy of a newspaper for the specific purpose of doing a birthday envie? That way your sendee would still get the coupons from your original newspaper. You would be purchasing an extra set of coupons as a birthday gift. My thinking is that some weeks the coupon flyers are huge. If I saw it was one of those weeks, I might pick up an extra copy of the paper for a birthday envie. On a day like today I wouldn't bother -- the coupons stink this week. Anyway, just my two cents. I really like the idea of the birthday envies. (Of course, I work in a school where we've taken away birthday treats from 6 year olds, so I'm kind of into protecting the right to a birthday celebration, LOL!) Either way, I love this coupon train and I thank you, Corinna, for all that you do to organize it!
I can't stop anyone from sending out to multiple people. Just know that since I organzie this, I am in a way responsible for not just my buddy, but for all of you. I need to make sure that everyone on this train is doing what they are supposed to do, and that people are fairly receiving the appropriate coupons. Therefore, I'm requesting (and asking nicely) that the b-day envies & multiple envies (to people besides your assigned buddy) stop. I'm sorry. Please only mail to your assigned buddy. Of course I have no factual way of knowing if you do so, other than if I keep getting complaints from the receivers, and I know who sends out to many people, so it's not hard for me to know whats going on (even without the posts).

There is another reason that I haven't mentioned for putting a stop to it also. There are a few people who send out only a couple of coupons to many people each week. Lets say that someone sends 10 coupons to 5 people this week, they have spent $2.20 on postage, when they could have sent those 50 coupons to 1 person (their buddy) and spent probably .44 cents, maybe .59 cents. I know there are some that don't mind doing this, but on the flip side there might be some that cannot afford to reciprocate the kindness all the time, and/or may feel obligated to try and do so.

I would prefer if we just post the birthday wishes on the thread, spread the cheer that way, and mail the coupons to our assigned buddies please.
 

In addition/regard to my newsletter: If you get multiple inserts of coupons from friends, family or if you buy multiple newspapers, please send them all to your assigned buddy. Even if you are mailing multiple of the same coupons to her, she can take as many of those that she likes and pass the rest on. Your buddy may use multiple of them before they expire, if not maybe her buddy will. If you are willing to send multiple envies to multiple people, this is no different than sending multiple envies to your assigned buddy. :thumbsup2 Thanks for your understanding. :goodvibes

Wow....okay I can understand the intent of limiting the extra envelopes and such but if you purchase "extras" I think folks should do what they choose with those. I mean seriously, I just won an auction from another site I frequent that had over 50 inserts in it. Those were not purchased for here and I did pull some things out for certain people. I don't think anyone who has ever received from me can complain about what they get from me. Jen is and has always been a fabulous sender and I add so much as well.

It seems like there is one cluster of folks who always have issues and I feel so badly for them. I don't know that there is a simple answer to all of this. Maybe we should just make the train smaller and boot the folks who consistently cause problems with issues like this?????

I need to think about this for a few days......

Doreen, I'm sure you know the coupons stunk this week. Not sure if I'll be picking up extras and work is nutso. I get layed off in 4 weeks and things will be much calmer for a while. I hope you can bear with me.
 
I get my newspaper each week, if Dh works at the fire station on Sundays he brings home the coupons from there for me, my mom sends me hers and her neighbors each week from Las Vegas. Therefore my buddy probably gets up to 4 of the same coupons within a 2 week period....thats ok...in fact that is great! I know I like to have multiple coupons of the items I buy the most, because when sales hit I try to stock up, that's when I get the best deals. So again if you buy multiple papers, or if you get extra inserts from your neighbors, friends and/or co-workers, that is fabulous, but please only mail to one person each week, and that person is your buddy. This doesn't mean you only have to send 1 envie to her, you can send HER multiple envies, that is up to you. If you were planning on sending out 5 envies to 5 different people this week, it is no different to send those 5 envies to 1 person. I do this to my buddy all the time. Last week I mailed her 2 regular envies and 1 small brown envie, did she get multiple coupons of the same item, yep I'm pretty sure of it, but she can take what she wants and pass the rest on.

Her is a GREAT example of one of our train riders. Jen_in_Nh is great at this train/couponing thing. She does buy multiple newspapers on weeks when the inserts are good and when it benefits her to purchase the multiple papers. I'm not saying that we all need to go out and purchase multiple papers, I'm saying if you send ALL of your coupons to one person, the train actually works better and in the long run YOU will benefit more.
 
I just had someone message me and ask this question...."Some people might not need for example Pet coupons or baby coupons. Would it be okay to know who can use those and send them." My answer is....even if you know your buddy does not have pets or babies, please send ALL your coupons to her because her buddy might. Eventually those coupons will get to someone that can use them....that's the purpose of the 'train'.

True but will they get there before they expire :confused3 I just foresee a lot of coupons expiring as they make there way around the train....maybe not but just a thought.
 
Wow....okay I can understand the intent of limiting the extra envelopes and such but if you purchase "extras" I think folks should do what they choose with those. I mean seriously, I just won an auction from another site I frequent that had over 50 inserts in it. Those were not purchased for here and I did pull some things out for certain people. I don't think anyone who has ever received from me can complain about what they get from me. Jen is and has always been a fabulous sender and I add so much as well.

It seems like there is one cluster of folks who always have issues and I feel so badly for them. I don't know that there is a simple answer to all of this. Maybe we should just make the train smaller and boot the folks who consistently cause problems with issues like this?????

I need to think about this for a few days......

:thumbsup2 I totally agree with you. But heres the thing.... I don't have to like all the rules on this train but I did agree to follow them when I joined. I just wish we could all be honest and direct with each other. If our buddy is sending what we think is junk AND sending out to others, drop her a line. :wave2: Let her know that you PREFER more food and NOT so much of the hair color, etc. I'm going to follow the rules and HOPE this solves the problem of some people getting bad envies. :goodvibes

Congratulations on your coupon win. :cool1:
 
True but will they get there before they expire :confused3 I just foresee a lot of coupons expiring as they make there way around the train....maybe not but just a thought.

Wow....okay I can understand the intent of limiting the extra envelopes and such but if you purchase "extras" I think folks should do what they choose with those. I mean seriously, I just won an auction from another site I frequent that had over 50 inserts in it. Those were not purchased for here and I did pull some things out for certain people. I don't think anyone who has ever received from me can complain about what they get from me. Jen is and has always been a fabulous sender and I add so much as well.

It says, that you are required to purchase the Sunday newspaper each week, cut all coupons, of course keep the ones you will use and pass the rest on to your assigned buddy. I feel if everyone does this, eventually you will end up getting your wishlist items and really no one is getting short changed.

This is an important fact, each of us on the train are responsible for someone, and because of the multiple envies going out to multiple people from only 1 person, we are letting our main responsibility go, imo.

I think it is for the best, and if you keep sending the coupons down the line, I think it will all even out eventually..meaning we will get our wishlist items at times and multiple copouns for items we use frequently. :thumbsup2


I read many posts last night but had to sleep on it and think about it more before I posted. My knee jerk reactions to things aren't always the wisest things I've said or done. ;) Sorry I had to quote so many people, but I think everyone quoted here has made some valid points. It's just my opinion but I would like to keep the basics of the train with slight modifications if permitted. Remember this is just my opinion that I'm throwing out there for discussion. I don't make up the rules~that's Corinna's job and we will go by her final decision.

Most importantly, I think we need to personally examine and evaluate how fair we've been to our sender. Do we mail each week, communicate when envies are sent (and received), and send a nice variety of coupons to that person we're responsible to? If there are weeks we can't send due to illness, bad weather, family issues, vacation, etc. do we let our train partner know so she's not wondering what is going on. We really need to communicate with each other. If there's a problem, do you let your train partner know so it can be worked out or do you just grumble to yourself or feel sorry for yourself and complain to Corinna?

I think we also need to ask ourselves if we really have the time to be part of the coupon train? It takes a fair amount of time to clip, sort, organize, and get envies ready for our train partner and ourselves.

I agree with Willis that time will probably run out on many of those multiple coupons that are following the train route. It would be nice if what's on everyone's wish list would eventually reach her occasionally, but I just don't see it happening.

Could we compromise a little bit? Personally, I would like to see Corinna put the birthday list back up each month with any requests that person might have so that those of us who have EXTRAS and want to send the birthday person a card/coupons/online greeting may do so. Let's see if not having the request list up helps everyone get better coupons over the next few weeks/months. Maybe it will work, maybe it won't. It's sure worth a try if it helps.

Corinna is a wonderful train conductor who wants this to be a success for all of us, but she doesn't have a magic wand :wizard: that she can wave and make it all better. We all need to do our part to make this train work. As with all things, she will please some with this decision and not please others. It can't be easy.

ETA: I meant to mention that I also feel bad that requesters like Nena and Rosie can't request coupons from the group for medical condition necessities such as the Pedialyte for Nena's friend and Depends but I guess it has to be across the board for requests/wish list.
 
Dznybound~One is going out today for you. Also, if you happen to read this, can you clear some space in your mailbox, I can't send you any PM's. Thanks so much! :thumbsup2
 
Mn_Gal, yours is packed and about to go out. It's a big one if I do say so myself. I probably should have used a bigger envie but I taped it really good.

Denise, I got a few envies from you just recently, don't know what the delay was. I knew they'd get here eventually though...as always you are a great sender!
 
I will abide by Corrinas decision !! I have enuff Depends Q's for now :lmao:Now if I didn't I'd expect my sender to go out and buy multiple copies to send them to me !!!:rotfl2::rotfl2: Just kidding I have an awesome buddy who always posts when she receives them and I have 3 envies ready to go out !! Hopefully tomorrow !! Sorry been busy this am and have to watch the supper cooking right now and then run to pick up girls !! My sender frequently sends multiple envies which I pass on to Anne . So we need to be Good Cabooses and follow all the rules !! Corrina you are the Best!!!
 
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