Greiving, please don't think me crazy

[Buckalew]

Vicki,
I am so sorry to hear of your husband John's death. How shocking for a young man to go so quickly. My prayers will be with you all. May God comfort you and bring you peace as you grieve and live each coming day.
{{{hugs}}}
Brenda

 

[rae519]

Dearest friend, death at any age is traumatic for the survivors and my heart goes out to you for your concern for your daughters. I can tell you from experience (working with grief and loss) that children grieve in their own way and at their own time - somedays they will be overwhelmed with it and others they will be joyful.....for you, the pain is different, it is yours is the loss of your mate, best friend and that will take a harder and longer toll since you will try to be there more for your children than for yourself.

I offer the services of your local Church or community organizations that deal with loss. There are many people who have been down your road and can be there for you on a more personal basis.

There is nothing more personal or intimate than grief - we all grieve differently and none of us is crazy, we are just dealing with incredible pain that we have never faced or even imagined before. Trying hard to be "normal" and do the routine things that require your attention is going to take it's toll on you. Lean on others and don't be afraid to ask for assistance.

My heart and prayers go out to you,
love,
Rae

 

[DMickey28]

I am so sorry. You and your beautiful daughters will be in my thoughts and prayers.

 

[GladysK]

((hugs)

My Dad died when we 4 kids were all teens.Mom recently told me she cried every day driving to work so we didn't see her grief.
Hugs to you and your daughters.

 

[MdmMim]

I am so sorry for your loss.
You and your daughters will be in my thoughts.

 

[safetymom]

Vicky, I am so sorry to hear of your husbands death. My husband died 8 years ago. He was only 47 and left me with 3 small children to raise.

Be kind to yourself. Allow yourself time to grieve. Just know that every day is a new beginning. Somedays you will take 2 steps forward, others you will take 3 steps back.

Time is a great healer.

http://www.idhal.com/foc.html

This is my web page devoted to a great group of people that I met on the Internet after my husband died. They were my lifesavers.

If you ever want to talk please let me know. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.

 

[holycow]

My thoughts are with you all.
(((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) to you and your lovely daughters.






Lisa
Holycow

 

[heath dog]

I will definitely keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I will pray for your strength also.

 

[figmentvi]

Vicki:

My heart is just breaking for you. I am so, so sorry for your loss and the pain that you are going through.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your daughters.


Linda

 

[Pam]

My very deepest condolences, Vicki. I am praying for all of your family, but especially YOU! I am praying that you will have peace, comfort, strength, and calm assurance in the days, weeks, months, and years ahead.

Please know that your DIS friends are mourning with you.

 

[Lanshark]

I can't imagine what you are going through at this point. You and your children will be in my prayers.

 

[HauntedMansionGeek]

I'm so sorry for your loss! I will keep you, your girls and your husband in my prayers.

 

[Tinkbell]

You and your children are in my prayers. I'm very sorry for your loss.

 

[lilboo]

I am so sincerely sorry for your sudden loss.

 

[ead79]

Oh Vicki, I am so sorry about the loss of your husband. I certainly don't think you're crazy. You're just trying to get through this. My prayers are with you and your children. May God give you the strength to get through this. {{{HUGS}}}

 

[PartyofSix]

Oh i got chills just reading your post. Feeling your pain and grieve through every word. I just want to sent you prayers and lots of hugs and support from our family. We too have 4 children and you post really struck me. I wish only the very best for you and your children in this time of need. Hugs to all of you.

 

[JohnTBap]

I sent you a PM. {{{HUGS}}}

 

[PRINCESS VIJA]

I sit here with tears after reading your post, I am so very sorry for your loss. I will pray for all of you.

 

[Keli]

I'm am so, so sorry for what has happened. My prayers are with you and your daughters.

 

[addicted_to_WDW]

I'm so sorry. Words can't ease your pain, but know that we are all thinking of you.

When you are ready, http://www.fortnet.org/widownet is a great resource for the widowed. My father found great comfort there after the death of my mother.