Here's my $0.02 as a real estate professional... Title companies shouldn't close on a personal check, for the simple reason that you can stop funds on a personal check. In fact, in some states, they won't even accept a cashier's check, since those can get cancelled under certain conditions.
Large real estate transactions are just about always done by wire transfer. I'll also tell you that, working with both national and local title companies in multiple states, I've never seen a title company charge to handle a wire. Your bank may charge you (and $12 is a good deal), but it should be free from the title company.
Wire transfers are also great ways to get your money OUT of title, such as if you sell a property. Instead of waiting for a check to clear, it just instantly appears in your bank account. They're a great tool which most people don't ever think about!