Great. My husband just sent me a facebook

[pixiewings71]

I say no top

LOL this is what I would do....LOL and DBF would freak. LOL In a good way of course. I would be worried about it, heck our laptop has a webcam but I have yet to figure out how to use it....LOL

 

[MICKEY88]

Haven't we all peeked on somebody in someway (through a window, cracked door, standing in a hallway, etc.) before announcing our presence?? Trying to bust someone talking about you, trying to hear some gossip, trying to scare somebody..."

Nope, you are the only one...LOL

 

[wvjules]

OP- I think some people on here are just trying to rile you up about nothing. Ignore it. He was curious about what you were doing without you knowing he was watching.
Haven't we all peeked on somebody in someway (through a window, cracked door, standing in a hallway, etc.) before announcing our presence?? Trying to bust someone talking about you, trying to hear some gossip, trying to scare somebody...

People just need to quit trying to stir things up and trying to make you paranoid. This would be a very different subject if you had started off with "My husband and I have been having some troubles lately, and I just caught him spying on me with a webcam."

Who is stirring things up. It would have disturbed ME which is what I said.

 

[MaryAnnDVC]

thats why I tell people, a small yellow stickie is your friend.

Placed where?

I'm in the "no big deal" category. He set it up and tried it out, and let her know. If he's like my DH, he does something and it doesn't necessarily occur to him to tell me. (Like repotting my plants over the weekend.) Some people seem to want to think he had some sort of sordid intentions, but I've seen some people ridiculously question innocent intentions on the DIS many times at this point, so I'm not surprised.

Yesterday, I did a search on the DIS and found a topic from 2000 that people were calling heated and with personal attacks, and it was SO tame!!! It's funny how quickly now people go into ***** mode.

 

[disneyfans95]

People just need to quit trying to stir things up and trying to make you paranoid. This would be a very different subject if you had started off with "My husband and I have been having some troubles lately, and I just caught him spying on me with a webcam."

Amen. You have a ton of people just waiting to pounce and stir up trouble. Clearly the OP is not looking for feedback on if it is right/wrong for your DH to do this.

 

[kbsparky]

...I guess I'm going to have to brush my hair and have on a cute top next time I sit down here.

Were you topless the first time around?

 

[Darsa]

I probably would've mooned him or something

Yes, this exactly!

 

[karibritt01]

OP- I think some people on here are just trying to rile you up about nothing. Ignore it. He was curious about what you were doing without you knowing he was watching.
Haven't we all peeked on somebody in someway (through a window, cracked door, standing in a hallway, etc.) before announcing our presence?? Trying to bust someone talking about you, trying to hear some gossip, trying to scare somebody...
People just need to quit trying to stir things up and trying to make you paranoid. This would be a very different subject if you had started off with "My husband and I have been having some troubles lately, and I just caught him spying on me with a webcam."

DH checking out the webcam and letting me know about it... no big deal. Checking out the webcam and never thinking to mention it... more like him, and still no big deal. But THIS would be disturbing and really tick me off!

 

[r1lissa]

Who is stirring things up. It would have disturbed ME which is what I said.

Who said I was talking to you? Guilty much?

 

[PrincessBelle09]

That would totally bother me, but my DH knows that I am the sort of person that would be bothered and wouldn't do it. OP obviously is the sort of person who is okay with it. To each her own.

 

[GRUMPY PIRATE]

Placed where?

I'm in the "no big deal" category. He set it up and tried it out, and let her know. If he's like my DH, he does something and it doesn't necessarily occur to him to tell me. (Like repotting my plants over the weekend.) Some people seem to want to think he had some sort of sordid intentions, but I've seen some people ridiculously question innocent intentions on the DIS many times at this point, so I'm not surprised.

Yesterday, I did a search on the DIS and found a topic from 2000 that people were calling heated and with personal attacks, and it was SO tame!!! It's funny how quickly now people go into ***** mode.

over the lens, duhhh!


there are some spyware programs that can allow someone to turn on the webcam.

 

[cteddiesgirl]

I say no top

Personally, I don't see what the big deal is. The man let her know about it. It's not like he had some sort of sinister plan.

It would be a differently thing if he didn't tell her about it, she was naked and was broadcasting it all over the net. Or she was doing something she shouldn't be doing such as having an affair.

I don't get why people would be upset over this.

 

[Liberty Belle]

Back from the pool.

I'm not bothered by anyone's differing opinion. I was just explaining about him downloading it last night, etc, so no one got the wrong idea.

I completely understand that some people would be bothered by it. It really didn't bother me, but I'm sure it helped that when he told me, he wrote "You are so beautiful."

 

[JessicaR]

Personally, I don't see what the big deal is.
I don't get why people would be upset over this.

Same here.

 

[pilesoflaundry]

I say no top

I would be more worried it was left on and someone else could access it then my husband taking a peek (since he fessed up).