Meriweather
Being a Nana is my superpower
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We're Nana and Papa
I called the only set of grandparents I knew, Nana and Papa
I called the only set of grandparents I knew, Nana and Papa

My DH is 2nd gen Greek-American, so we'd like to go by Yiayia and Papou, also . We called my grandmother Granny, but all her friends and relations called her by her childhood nickname, Nonna. I always felt a little jealous of them. I don't like the name, Granny, but if the kids don't want to use our Greek names, I'd like to go by Nonna and Papa.My mom/stepdad - Yiayia & Papou (Greek).
From a realistic POV -- it probably doesn't matter what you want the grandchildren to call you. Once they start talking, they will call you something, and whatever that happens to be will likely stick. That's how my uncle became BUMPA, because oldest grandson tried to say grampa, and it came out as Bumpa. To this day, college age grandson and all the other grandchildren call him Bumpa.
Sounds really stupid, but I'd like my grandkids (when they come...not soon!) to just call me Grandma, and DH Grandpa.
Inlaws are Grammy and Grandpa. My parents are Grandy (because "Grammy" was "taken" -- whole 'nuther thread) and Pop-Pop.
They don't make Hallmark cards for Grandy and Pop-pop (although there is a card which lists a whole bunch of grandpa-type names on it that I think we've sent several years in a row). And don't send her a Grandma card -- she's not "Grandma." So now that the kids are older, we have to seek out "to a wonderful grandmother" or just cross out Grandma on the card. It's a real pain.
Grandma First Name (or even last name) would have been preferable.
I actually think those names are extra special, as, to me, they connote an early and unique relationship.Truth! My old neighbor was "Mocca" and my grandmother's sister "Gobbie" to their grandchildren![]()
My boys call my parents Grandma and Grandpa. They call my MIL Nonnie (my FIL passed away a while ago, but my older son used to call him Papa). It originally was supposed to be Nana and Papa, but when my older son was little, it always came out "Nonnie", so it just kind of stuck.![]()
Sounds really stupid, but I'd like my grandkids (when they come...not soon!) to just call me Grandma, and DH Grandpa.
Inlaws are Grammy and Grandpa. My parents are Grandy (because "Grammy" was "taken" -- whole 'nuther thread) and Pop-Pop.
They don't make Hallmark cards for Grandy and Pop-pop (although there is a card which lists a whole bunch of grandpa-type names on it that I think we've sent several years in a row). And don't send her a Grandma card -- she's not "Grandma." So now that the kids are older, we have to seek out "to a wonderful grandmother" or just cross out Grandma on the card. It's a real pain.
Grandma First Name (or even last name) would have been preferable.