Lot's of Irish Grandchildren (6) in this Italian Family. Two names that are always mispronounced.
Deidre-Day dre
Caoilinn-Kay o lynn
I wanted irish names for my kids - but I did try to make it easier for them. My eldest is Ciarán (we've met a couple in recent years and teachers seem to be fine with it) and Declan (seems more unique than his brother's but you can't really mess it up)
Obviously!!![]()
I just mean, I look at it from that perspective and it's hard for me to make those letters make those sounds.![]()
Oh ...and the doggie is Molly!
I love both those names, but having a hard to pronounce and frequently miss-spelled first name myself wonder whether you know the years of misery your child will experience with an *odd* name.
It is a curse. Just saying . . .
Using English language rules to attempt to make Irish "sound" right is completely wrong. It simply does not work.
I would have no idea how to pronounce that one and around my neighborhood they would probably say Granny!!![]()
I love Irish names. My favs are Aoife and Orla. My next puppy may be Aoife.
I love the name Declan. As for Grainne, I wasn't sure how it would be pronounced, but I knew it wouldn't be "grain". I like it... but then again, I always love Irish names. They're so... comforting and beautiful.
I knew a Maire once. It's pronounced like Mara/Marah.
When I saw the movie Atonement, I remember coming home to imdb the actress who played young Briony. She was played by Saoirse Ronan and ever since that day I have adored the name Saoirse.
As someone who has a very, very easy and common name but prefers a shortened version of it I have to say that people are always going to have problems with names. I want to bite people's heads off when they call me by my given name and not the name I prefer.
So... if you love a name, use it.
The more I look at it, it does look like granny!
I love Declan too!![]()
Which can also be spelt Deaghlan!!
Yesterday, at the entrance to DAK, I saw a young girl wearing Mickey Ears.
The name embroidered on the back was, Earynne. I had no clue until I heard someone with her call her name.
Erin.
So, spelling of a name can be confusing and not have much to do with the actual pronounciation regardless of culture base.
Developing a sense of asking how to correctly pronounce a name, is far more respectful than dismissing an unusual name with "I'd just say XXX."
I work with a man named Jenione. I had to ask how to pronounce it.
So his Mother should have named him something else?
I find no shame in admitting right up front that I don't know how to pronounce a given name.It's on ME, not on the person with the name.
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I wanted irish names for my kids - but I did try to make it easier for them. My eldest is Ciarán (we've met a couple in recent years and teachers seem to be fine with it) and Declan (seems more unique than his brother's but you can't really mess it up)
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