Go and find a soldier's grave.

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Make this Memorial Day really memorable.


Go and find a soldier's grave.


It shouldn't be too hard. If you're not near a military cemetery, just about any cemetery will do.


Look for the little American flags fluttering by the stones or the little bronze markers placed by the veterans' organizations.


Or walk the rows and look for those stones that impart terse histories of short lives -- "Killed in Action on the Island of Iwo Jima," or "KIA Republic of Viet Nam," or "Iraq 2003."


I know, I know. You do plan to watch that short parade, and the ceremony at the flagpole. But then relatives are going to be over for that big cookout. There's baseball and auto racing on TV, not to mention the "Memorial Day Mattress Event" or the "Memorial Day SUV Salesathon."


Look, just take an hour away from all that. An hour. Go out early in the morning if you have to.


Go and find a soldier's grave.


Put some flowers there. Or just pause and say a prayer. Nothing elaborate. "Thanks" will do.


Or just stop and think about what it means; what it really means to give your life, in its prime, for your country. Look at that name there on the stone. Think what might have been... and what was.


Some of these men and women were in uniform by choice. Some because they had no choice. Some were heroes. Some were not.


But they were there where all hell was breaking loose. They probably had no idea they were giving "the last full measure of devotion." They just had some instant, desperate job to do. In a cockpit or a turret or a hole in the ground.


Did they grasp the "policy implications" of their presence on the high seas, in the air or on some foreign soil? Did they have time for a curse or a prayer when they saw the muzzle flashes or heard that rushing sound, or when the bomb sent the Humvee into the air?


Go and find a soldier's grave.


You can have that hamburger and beer later, and maybe relax in the hammock and not give a thought to that one whose life span is now an incised line in stone -- that one who represented you, like no Congressman could.


Go and find a soldier's grave.


Remember what duty costs.


Then just bow your head and, as Gen. George S. Patton said, do not mourn that such men died, but thank God that such men lived.

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What a beautiful post!! Thank you!
 
Thanks for this wonderful post. Sometimes I think the real meaning of Memorial Day (like so many other holidays) has become lost in all the parties and sales!

This is one of the holidays that I do miss living in PA with my family. We had a tradition of attending our town's Memorial Day parade, and ceremony in the park to honor the war heroes. As others were rushing to the King of Prussia shopping area, I was visiting my brother;s grave site. He gave his life in Vietnam on March 9, 1969, when I was just 10!

He was and is my hero. I am thankful that so many before us were willing to make the ultimate sacrifice!To this day I wonder what his life would have been. He was a very special person who lives on in the hearts of all who knew him, as I am sure is the case for all the heroes!

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Makinorlando -

Your post bought tears to my eye's. Your brother is the example of the timeless truth that freedom is not free. God rest his soul - and may we never forget his sacrifice.
 

Thank you so very much for that wonderful post.

God Bless all of our Veterans and their families.

Here is a picture of a dear friend that was KIA last April in Afghanistan at the age of 36. MAJ Edward J Murphy
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The Principal at my daughter's elementary school found out Thursday that his son Doug was killed in Iraq. God Bless his family.
 
Your post makes me cry. We owe a great debt to those who paid the ultimate price for our freedom and the freedom of others.
 
Did that yesterday with one of our own Veteran's, my Dad. We go every year and I am continuing the tradition with my two kids. We need to remember what Memorial Day is all about - not just for cookouts and a long weekend.

Jill
 
JESW said:
Did that yesterday with one of our own Veteran's, my Dad. We go every year and I am continuing the tradition with my two kids. We need to remember what Memorial Day is all about - not just for cookouts and a long weekend.

Jill

It is so important that we pass this tradition down to our kids. We were at our town's parade the in 2002, the last year I lived there, and there was a dad with his son standing next to us - they were watching the parade, and the little boy wanted to know where SANTA was (that is the other parade my hometown has every year....) that dad was trying to explain to him that this is a different kind of parade!!!

I am going to search out somewhere here in Orlando, a parade or ceremony (I honestly can say I don't know where there is a cemetary???) so DD and I can observe the day!
 
My DD and I went to to the cemetry! We then walked a little, we found an old site I stood there just to say thanks!
 
My father died at the age of 39 years old from brain and lung cancer, presumably as a result of Agent Orange from the Vietnam War. I have the goosebumps and tears now. Thank you for posting this.
 
SillyMe said:
My father died at the age of 39 years old from brain and lung cancer, presumably as a result of Agent Orange from the Vietnam War. I have the goosebumps and tears now. Thank you for posting this.

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Good post and good idea.

My church has quite a few vets buried in its graveyard, some dating back to the Civil War.

I'll be there tomorrow and I'll pay respects.
 
Your post brought tears to my eyes. The soldiers grave I plan on visiting is my father's. The thing he was most proud of in his life was his career in the Air Force and his service to our country. We, his family, are just as proud of him and thankful there are people like him to defend our freedom.


Thank you for reminding us of the true meaning of the day.
 
Our whole church service today is in honor of our Vets/Military. I wrote a speech that I'm going to read to the congregation - I'm looking forward to it. Tomorrow I'm taking my kids to the Memorial day parade. My young son wants to be a Marine when he grows up - he stands and salutes all of the Vets as they walk by. He makes me proud. :)
 
What lovely stories! A few years back, my DH was invited to give the Memorial Day speech at a little town here in Maine. My DH is currently serving in the Navy as a Pilot. I honestly think that was one of the proudest moments of his career. He was so very touched and honored to pay tribute to those who have gone before him.

Joshua Chamberlain is buried in our town and we plan on visiting the gravesites tomorrow. Thank you so much for this wonderful idea!!!
 

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