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Hey everyone, so tonight I started writing a huge message to one of my so called "friends" If you've read a few of my vents about some of them then you'll understand...if not sorry.

So I came here to post what I told my so called "friend" something and I highly doubt that she'll understand what I'm feeling...

Anyway.. here's what I told her. I told her FLAT out how I've been feeling and how I felt today...:

Hey (friends name),
I have to let this out, its been on my mind for like, ever. I don’t really care if you don’t have a response to this either…that’ll probably show a lot if you don’t. Anyway, I have to say that lately while at school, and not just at school either, but I’ve been feeling really left out at lunch. Not even just at lunch, I’m also talking about online. You see, you have the possibilities of being at school all day, while for me, I don’t have that even. I only have three classes, and I hardly know anybody at all. Nobody. Today, I don’t even know if you or anybody noticed I had left…but I did because I felt/feel left out a lot, more than you can even imagine. You’re able to be at school all day, and be around the same people having better and getting better friendships with those people. To me I hardly know anybody at all, anymore I don’t. You and I we used to be best friends…what ever happened to that friendship? Do you even know? Because I don’t…but I miss our friendship that we used to have together. This has been hurting me for the longest time ever…Last year you would help me get some food at lunch but a few days ago when I asked you too even a few times before that you didn’t want to help me.. but a few days ago you did get me the food for me and thank you for doing that. Just know that actions/facial expressions speak louder than words. Plus its not just you doing this either, its everyone you have around. I’m just really sad and really left out.. today I have no idea where I really went for lunch, but maybe this is what you need to hear. Maybe I won’t hang around too much where you and everyone else hang out for a while. I took the time to write this all out because I needed to. Maybe you’ll take some extra time to write something? I don’t really care anymore…bye.

I just had to post this on this thread, I feel more comfortable posting this on a 'Girls' thread' is all.
 
Hey everyone, so tonight I started writing a huge message to one of my so called "friends" If you've read a few of my vents about some of them then you'll understand...if not sorry.

So I came here to post what I told my so called "friend" something and I highly doubt that she'll understand what I'm feeling...

Anyway.. here's what I told her. I told her FLAT out how I've been feeling and how I felt today...:

Hey (friends name),
I have to let this out, its been on my mind for like, ever. I don’t really care if you don’t have a response to this either…that’ll probably show a lot if you don’t. Anyway, I have to say that lately while at school, and not just at school either, but I’ve been feeling really left out at lunch. Not even just at lunch, I’m also talking about online. You see, you have the possibilities of being at school all day, while for me, I don’t have that even. I only have three classes, and I hardly know anybody at all. Nobody. Today, I don’t even know if you or anybody noticed I had left…but I did because I felt/feel left out a lot, more than you can even imagine. You’re able to be at school all day, and be around the same people having better and getting better friendships with those people. To me I hardly know anybody at all, anymore I don’t. You and I we used to be best friends…what ever happened to that friendship? Do you even know? Because I don’t…but I miss our friendship that we used to have together. This has been hurting me for the longest time ever…Last year you would help me get some food at lunch but a few days ago when I asked you too even a few times before that you didn’t want to help me.. but a few days ago you did get me the food for me and thank you for doing that. Just know that actions/facial expressions speak louder than words. Plus its not just you doing this either, its everyone you have around. I’m just really sad and really left out.. today I have no idea where I really went for lunch, but maybe this is what you need to hear. Maybe I won’t hang around too much where you and everyone else hang out for a while. I took the time to write this all out because I needed to. Maybe you’ll take some extra time to write something? I don’t really care anymore…bye.

I just had to post this on this thread, I feel more comfortable posting this on a 'Girls' thread' is all.

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Thats what's up...with me anyway. -_-
 
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Can you talk to her in person?? Sometimes words don't come out the way you intend them to OR she'll read it differently than you do.

The best thing to do is to talk to her in person. Maybe she doesn't even know?

:hug:
 
She's offline now... :/

I don't know..maybe I'll talk to her on Monday or something and tell her then.
 
Yeah, it can be totally nervewracking to talk to someone in person, especially if they've done something not very nice. I hate it. Confrontation is one of my biggest downfalls.
 
Yeah, it can be totally nervewracking to talk to someone in person, especially if they've done something not very nice. I hate it. Confrontation is one of my biggest downfalls.

I agree, it really is sorta difficult to talk about it with them...I told my mom about what happened today and she said a few things that made me feel a little bit better.. but I don't think this "person" I sent the message to even read what I had to say which in that case really does SUCK. :/ It doesn't make things easier either..
 
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