Thanks so much to ALL who responded. I am kind of afraid to leave the house, like she is lurking waiting for me leave LOL. But Cheryl I am SO jealous! Happy Birthday early!! And YES wear the button! Be proud. My birthday is in June so we can never go cuz the kids aren't quite out of school yet but I say BE Proud!! Wear it and enjoy all the perks! I would LOVE to be going back esp with the nice weather you will most likely have. I froze my potootie off in Nov!!
The good thing is we are at least going to DL in April as well! Prob right after you 5th through the 10th. But anyway enjoy!!! And yes the little ones are upset. They really look up to their sister but that is part of the problem. I hate that their "role" model is a drug and alcohol addict. NOT the best role model and esp with her running off and her bad grades. NOT setting the best example. Plus she has told them not to listen to us etc.
In a way I am glad she is getting away from them before they get any older. NOT saying they won't rebel on their own but she is def a bad influence.
THIS time Shane said he is not going looking for her like he did before.
Apparenlty she left in just her pj's. Last time she actually ran away and had her phone a paycheck (which she bought drugs and booze with) her backpack full of clothes etc. This time she just snuck out and was out drinking or what have you which we found out she has been probably doing several nights based on the note we found.
No WONDER she is flunking out of school!
She also has a major bladder infection PROB cuz she is having sex. I just hope it is protected!!!
DON'T need THAT mess!
UGH! I don't even want to keep talking about it, it is giving me heartburn!
Anyway I must run. I have to get my errands done and have my doc apt today. I knew YOU guys would understand. You guys are all so great. It's not like I want to give up on her but for the best of the other children I have at home and for MY and others sanity we just need peace in our home and EVERYONE has given her chance after chance after chance. We have taken her to drug and alcohol counseling, regular counseling. I just don't know what else to do anymore!