Girls and Boys!

[Babyjustrun]

Is that you he's holding?
That's crazy.

I'm not the greatest of moods.
C left for Costa Rica today. He's only gone a week, but this week is the last week of school.
It's unlikely I'm going to see him again until September... if even.
I didn't get to say goodbye, and well my friend was kind of effing this up this past week.

 

[Axel]

No, it's my ex-girlfriend that I'm still good friends with that he's holding.

He did that to Chris before Marion and after Marion, he tried Ryan, but Ryan was too heavy (like...160lbs, I think. Chris is 140lbs and Marion is 115lbs).

 

[xxxKateKrazexxx]

my story is kind of a cinderella story.
my boyfriend liked me for a longggggg timee.
and i just sort of ignored it.
everybody was telling me to go out with him.
i really didn't want to at the time.
so instead i got to know him a little better.
then i started to like him.
eventually i found out that he loved me
and i loved him so we started going out.
all of my friends were like "oh thank god! finally!"
it was really funny.
and i'm happy.

 

[ginnygirl102]

So one of my good guy friends asked me out yesteray but i said no bec it wud b really wierd datin him bec im such good friends with him! now hes sad and i feel bad sum1 tell me how 2 get over this!

 

[jbcheerchick93]

still talk to him, let him know that it hurt you to hurt him, nut that you dont like him like that, only as a friend.

so me && my boyfriend. hes amazing, and super crazy about me. and im super crazy about him. the story is really long and i dont feel like telling it so i will another day.

xoxo
jesse

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

HELP :
My best friend likes me, and everyones like "ZOMG, MOUSE YOU TOTALLY LIKE HIM" which, I do, I love the guy to death, just not.like.that. but if they keep giving him the wrong idea, he either might :

Get upset because he KNOWS who my crush is
OR
Start thinking that I dont really like my crush, that I really do like him.


The sad part is, is my BEST friends think "Well..of course you like him, you guys talked on the phone for 3 hours until 11PM!" "..that..was a 1 time thing." "but still"

Im afraid hes SERIOUSLY gonna ask me out eventually, and I wont know what to say because he is my best friend, and if i tell him "Im sorry I just dont like you like that", then its like "GO JUMP OFF A CLIFF AND DIE", because that takes guts becaue of how tightly knit we are. :/

I seriously cant hurt his feelings.
We made up a joke of " Hey lover" but sometimes he takes it seriously, and he has already sent me 5 texts with "<3 you babe" "Luv yuh " (or something like that) and like whenever I text him a "goodbye" i always put "Loooveee youuu xD" AND he knows I joke, because its an insider. I know hes NOT joking though.

Then, I get questions from my friends "Why dont you like him back?"

Like I seriously dont know why he isnt my crush. I sometimes wonder "why is my crush my crush? I know he isnt a 'prettyboy' and he isnt popular...I spend at least 14 times MORE with this guy, then I do my crush.."


I got a text from one of my gal-pals and it said "Hey...would you ever go out with *insert friends name in here*" and I literally replied back with "Im not sure. I cant say NEVER, but I cant say 'YES' "

Then my OTHER friends (not as close) said "EW. Why would you like him though? Isnt it obvious??? You dont like him because hes ugly" thats not true, hes not ugly...I dont know how you would describe ugly, but to me it doesnt make a differance. HONESTLY. It doesnt. Any crush ive EVER had is "ugly", but him? Hes just not my crush.

I dont get butterflys, or I dont feel...welcomed(?)

Its all so confusing.
I cant imagine what reading that post must be like.

:/
It never leaves me alone, because I feel so bad about it.

 

[lpe_bratz]

gah.

a diser told me he loved me today. :

 

[ilovepoohbear]

Well ... I really need some help.

I have only ever gone out with one guy (when i was 11) and we had to split because we were going to different schools and havn't plucked up the courage to ask a guy out since.

I have liked this guy since I started my new school last year and one of my friends (Rocky) said "would you go out with her if she asked you". He replied with "I'm not looking for a girlfriend right now". I understood that but then about a week later he started going out with my other friend (Jade). I dont hate her (because he obviously didnt want to go out with me) but i hate him for not actually telling me that he didnt want to go out with me.

Well I am best friends with Jade because we both like the same guys. We both like this guy in our Science class and we both like this other guy but she dosen't know i like him. She says to me that she isnt going to go out with him because he is her best friend and has been since she was 5. Me and him always have a great laugh at breaktimes and lunchtimes but i dont know whether he likes me or not.

What should i do???

 

[Babyjustrun]

This week is gonna suck.
It's not fun to be at school if he's not here.
=(
And very few other people can make me feel better right now.

 

[jbcheerchick93]

look at the thing tht i put under my name....its true. i really really like him.


*disclaimer* you might not want to read the next part, its sorta directed to someone specific.


well i hope you know who you are, cause i wanted to clear things up. you seem sweet, but i dont really know you. i have a boyfriend that i pretty much lovev, but i want us to be friends, because you would be so fun to talk to.


lauren, you know who i am talking about, and i know who you are talking about. that is sooooo soooo soooooo cute. the first time CJ said that to me it was so sweet. he was going to go to the mall with a guy from his work that had just gotten his liscence and car that day. i was like noooooo what if you died!!! he was like you would care that much, and i was like, of course i would care. then he was like well he didnt call me back so i dont think that i'm going and i love you. it was so so soso sosososososososo sweet!


XOXO jesse

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Hes gonna ask me out soon.
I can sense somethings on the way at least.

:/

 

[seaturtledude]

Question: If a friend knows their friend likes someone, is it right for them to ask that person out, although the other person likes them?

 

[#1TiggerFan]

wow keep on posting!!

God Bless
Rachel

 

[petey's sweetie]

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[Babyjustrun]

Question: If a friend knows their friend likes someone, is it right for them to ask that person out, although the other person likes them?

I think it's fine.
Seriously, I really hate those 'unwritten rules' where a person can't date a friends ex, or someone they like.
If you like them too, then you're entitled to ask them out. I mean, if the other person asks that person out, then you're the one who gets hurt. It's lose/lose, so you can either do it (and your friend will probably get over it after a while) or just not.

 

[reminisce]

I think it's fine.
Seriously, I really hate those 'unwritten rules' where a person can't date a friends ex, or someone they like.
If you like them too, then you're entitled to ask them out. I mean, if the other person asks that person out, then you're the one who gets hurt. It's lose/lose, so you can either do it (and your friend will probably get over it after a while) or just not.

i think the 'rules' all depend on a person. for some people, their friend dating their ex would be no big deal. for others, it would be really hurtful--i think the 'rules' are just trying to prevent people from being hurt.

 

[ginnygirl102]

I think that those rules were probably just made by some girl who can't hold onto a guy and she loves ruining other people's lives! I personally think it is really stupid. I mean I dated my friend's crush it kinda made her jelous but she is slowly getting over it. We still friends too so all u people out there who would drop a friend just because she broke one of these so-called "rules" then you really need an attitude check.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

I think that those rules were probably just made by some girl who can't hold onto a guy and she loves ruining other people's lives! I personally think it is really stupid. I mean I dated my friend's crush it kinda made her jelous but she is slowly getting over it. We still friends too so all u people out there who would drop a friend just because she broke one of these so-called "rules" then you really need an attitude check.

Im sorry,

but seriousy thats not true.

As much as someone tells their BEST FRIEND it doesnt hurt them that theyre going out with their crush, it still does. They cant exactly get over it. They will always wonder "but yeah, why her...and not me..." or "What couldve been?".

I know this for a fact. This girl is going out with my friends crush, and they are really REALLY close, thinks that she is over him. WRONG. She still cares deeply about him.


I also know that one of my friends is "secretly" "dating" my crush, and as much as I tell people "I dont like him anymore" it eats my flesh down to the bone.

Me.
I cant lie at all.
This is one of those things where no natter how bad someone is at lying, they pull through.


I feel terrible for your friend.
Just. TERRIBLE.

 

[Babyjustrun]

My friend has been asking me all week if I like my crush.
I keep saying no because I don't trust her.
But I'm afraid she's going to tell him that during exam week.
Ugh. As much as he doesn't need to know that I like him, I don't want him thinking I'm not into him.

 

[KitKat_Tink]

So that guy i was talking about before...well he's dating my best friend now...They started dating 2 days after he told me he liked me. I'm sooooo pissed.